Trying to understand Aquarius men?

Question

Heres some tips if you actually decide to try the impossible(aka understand a aquarian):
1. be patient, without this youre pretty much S-C-R-E-W-E-D, I use to think I was the most impatient person in the world, hell I still am, but somehow with him, It's like he transformed me into a much more patient person, maybe it's just with him, or maybe I'v changed in general.

2. Play mind games, I dont know if they purposely try to play mind games or what, but if youre not familar with aquarian you*ll automatically assume hes playing hard to get, which pretty much is, he just does it without realizing it or so they want us to think...mm hmm..

3. Don't call him a lot, don't talk to him a lot, just keep contact to a minimal, well in the beg. anyway, they need this thing called space, and if you dont give that to them, well, you'll get a sharp tongue jammed in your ear.It seems to me the only ways to get to his heart is to treat him like butter. In all honestly, it's sad but true, and maybe this is just the Aqua I know but you have to treat them like butter or they*ll treat you like butter.

4. understand he's not like other people, he's different, and thats what you adore about the ***, he's so different from other people you can't help but want to follow him into the forest of his out of this world perspective...

5. Don't cry a lot, Okay, you can be emotional, sentimental, but not over the top, they usually tend to get very uncomfortable, don't know what to say, and get completely silent, not the good kind of silence, the silence that pulls your skin off your body...::shivers:::


6. he wants to be friends first!, thats how the relationship of love usually develops, rarely will a aquarian just date someone theyve known for little time, and if they do, it doesnt last.

7. if youre unique, out there, sweet, kind, intelligent, loving, funny, nonconformist, youre SET, these are usually what aqua's are looking for, plus beauty usually sets their eyes on you in a sweet way.

8. If he seems like he's ignoring you, he's not, he's busy, doing his own thing, wrapped up in work, or his little box...ignore him, thats the only way unfortanely, and when you do finally get him off your damn mind he shows up out of nowhere like nothing happened, ready to talk your ear off...sigh..

9. he has a weird sense of humor, he'll say silly things and sometimes its funny and sometimes its not, but laugh anyway, he'll love you for it...but dont do it in a fake sense...

10. dont try to make him jealous,Does not WORK, I REPEAT DONT TRY THIS, DONT DONT DONT, YOU'LL LOOK FLASHY AND FOOLISH, dont bother, it wont work, he'll just say "thats nice" calm calm calm..

11. you want to ask him something? holy butter dont expect a BULLbutter answer! expect the truth, even if it hurts, his words stand on a fine line between cruel and sweet...you just breathe easier when it's sweet...trust me when its sweet, it's heaven..

12. stand BY HIM, he might seem like he's pushing you away one minute then holding you close the next, hes probably testing you, examining you, probing in with a flashlight, trying to figure your motives, your thoughts, dont take too much of his aloof BS though, stand your ground once and awhile, he doesnt want a girl he can walk all over but he doesnt want a girl who cries by a drop of a hat...He needs a girl who can handle him, aka a very strong indiviual.

13. He's shy, but has a few close friends, who mean a lot to him..he hates confrontations, and conflict, if you must confront a aqua, expect to deal with a very stubborn uncomfortable situation.

14. he might take forever to say he loves you, who cares? wait wait wait, let him say it first, it might take forever but who cares, at least you KNOW when he says it, he means it deeply in his core of his being, you know with an aquarian he wont say something he doesnt mean, he wont lead you on, he wont push you down, he will be there with kind words, and a gentle voice, then there are times his voice is colder than ice, and his distance is unbearable, but just remember at the end of the tunnel, there is a light, and hope, and if its meant to be, it will happen, sometimes he acts like he doesnt want you there, but in reality I believe he does, the more he acts like he doesnt like you, is probably when he does,
hes a complicated creature, but isnt that what you love about him?

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Answer 1

Oh my gosh this is totally my hubby! My mouth hit the keys when I was reading this. Geez and I always thought he was unique and I just wasn't totally gettng him, but boy did you nail it on the head. I love him to pieces and totally understand the space issue, as he needs a lot of it, otherwise I get the silent treatment. I have learned to live with him and his space issues. It makes him who he is.

Answer 2

Understanding Aquarius Men

Answer 3

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Trying to understand Aquarius men?
Heres some tips if you actually decide to try the impossible(aka understand a aquarian):
1. be patient, without this youre pretty much S-C-R-E-W-E-D, I use to think I was the most impatient person in the world, hell I still am, but somehow with him, It's like he transformed me into a much more...

Answer 4

I don't think Zodiac sign has anything to do with it. Personally, I don't believe in any of that stuff. If you want your relationship to work, you need to communicate with your partner. If you love someone there's no point in hiding your true emotions.

Answer 5

Yeah well I dated and married one and and we were together 17 years and a bunch of that is crap but some of it's true. I think people are who they are regardless of their sign........ they may have some of the characteristics but mine was a dog, cheated from day one. And now that I'm gone, he's begging.......... end of story..............and I'm Pisces...........

Answer 6

this is my aqua ex...every last word describes him perfectly. i'm a virgo (actually on cusp of leo/virgo) dating another aqua now, seeing a lot of the same traits. at least i've gained experience with the last one and will know how to handle situations better....lol

Answer 7

It's my husband too.I can't stand it.I'm a pisces.Really BIG difference.