Healthier babies.
2006-08-20 10:38:08
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answer #1
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answered by Skepticalist 5
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Actually, there are more disadvantages than advantages. Probably the biggest advantage would be they are young even to start a family and enjoy it when the kids become teens. The disadvantages would be inmaturity, too eager, inexperience with life, age itself in legal matters, etc. Majority of young aged marriages result in divorces due to failed expectations, feeling trapped, not really ready for responsibilty, etc
2006-08-20 17:43:06
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answer #2
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answered by Arthur W 7
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I married young, marriage is very hard reguardless of age. I think if I would have been older I would have been less likely to blame myself for problems & less likely to put up with the stuff I did out of fear of failure & being alone. I have been with my husband 15 yrs & I'm 30. So...I think we have both grown alot & realized its not about that new magic, its about commitment, security, trust & communication. All relationships for any age go thru the new stage & the new wears off, now its time to grow up & make it work. The more you agree on & have in common the better. If you disagree on children, religion, hate in-laws, work right away forget it. Its hard enough to stay together with out the everyday stuff weighing against you.Good luck!
2006-08-20 17:43:10
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answered by ? 2
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THERE ARE SOME SERIOUS DISADVANTAGES TO MARRYING TOO YOUNG OR TOO EARLY.....
IF PEOPLE HAVE NO OR LITTLE EXPERIENCE WITH OTHERS, THEN THEY WILL ALWAYS WONDER WHAT ELSE IS OUT THERE, WHAT THEY ARE MISSING, AND WILL EVENTUALLY RESENT THEIR PARTNER BECAUSE THEY FEEL TRAPPED, OR THEY WILL END UP CHEATING.
THINK ABOUT IT, WOULDN'T YOU LIKE TO KNOW THAT YOUR PARTNER HAS BEEN AROUND AND EXPERIENCED MANY, AND PICKED YOU AS THEIR TOP CHOICE OUT OF ALL THAT? OR WOULD YOU RATHER BE WITH SOMEONE WHO WAS WITH YOU BY DEFAULT, OR BECAUSE THEY THOUGHT THEY HAD TO BE, THAT IT WAS THE NEXT LEVEL OF A RELATIONSHIP?
EACH PARTNER WE ENCOUNTER, AND BECOME INVOLVED WITH, TEACHES US MORE ABOUT OURSELVES. WE LEARN WHAT WE WANT AND DON'T WANT. WE LEARN WHAT IS ACCEPTABLE OR NOT. WE LEARN WHAT WE REQUIRE FROM SOMEONE.
WE ALSO SHOULD ALLOW OURSELVES MORE TIME TO DEVELOP WHO WE ARE AND TO MAKE SOME ACCPOMPLISHMENTS. WE NEED TO ACHIEVE SOME GOALS AND HAVE SOMETHING TO BRING TO A MARRIAGE. IF WE JUMP IN TOO SOO, WE MAY NEVER ACHIEVE THOSES GOALS.
WE NEED TIME TO KNOW AND UNDERSTAND WHAT A PARTNERSHIP IS, RATHER THAN JUMP INTO MARRIAGE WITH MISGUIDED NOTIONS THAT THEY WILL BE RESPONSIBLE FOR OUR HAPPINESS, AND THAT IT PROVES OUR LOVE FOR EACH OTHER.
THERE ARE SO MANY PRACTICAL THINGS THAT ARE OVERLOOKED IN OUR EXCITEMENT TO "NOT HAVE TO FACE LIFE ON OUR OWN" ANYMORE....LIKE KIDS, RELIGION, WHERE TO LIVE, WHO'S FAMILY TO VISIT AND WHEN, WHO WILL WORK, EDUCTION/DEGREES, HOW TO DIVIDE THE BILLS AND RESPONSIBILITIES, INVESTMENTS AND SAVINGS, VACATIONS, WEDDING PLANNING, WHO WILL HAVE TO GIVE UP WHAT TO BE TOGETHER,ETC
THE "MARRYING YOUNG" THINK IS BASED ON VANITY, NOT PRACTICALITY.
2006-08-20 17:51:09
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answered by pandora the cat 5
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well with a 50/50 chance of the marriage working or not, if you get married young you'll probably be still young when you divorce and able to find a new mate.....
2006-08-20 17:57:23
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answered by Aussieblonde -bundy'd 5
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The happy relation should be only between the wife and her husband.So why people stay far from this happy days.They lose every happines minute in their life without marry.In the other side they can see their kids and follow them by completely efforts.
2006-08-20 18:01:13
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answered by abotraka777 3
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If you marry someone older, it is easier to get on the property ladder.
You get validation as an adult, people accept you as grown-up
You can move out of your parents house.
Gives you more time to have children
2006-08-20 17:38:01
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answered by Anonymous
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You share a lifetime of experiences. You have your children when you are young enough to have plenty of energy to keep up with them. You increase your chances of having grandchildren while you are young enough to enjoy them. You have a hot spouse.
2006-08-20 17:40:07
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answered by Dave 4
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you have a nice time with ur hubby,you grow along side ur kids that way parenting wud be sweet n ur kids will be proud to show u forth.u learn everyday and you dont take life too seriously.For ladies its much difficult giving birth when u r older.
2006-08-20 17:41:53
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answered by angel 2
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Long term relationship.
Kids.
Stablity.
Not having a kid in school when you are 50.(Is that your granma?)
Not hunting for a husband at 40 or later, Good spouses get taken fast.
2006-08-20 17:37:36
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answered by DaFinger 4
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You can ejoy your kids while you are energetic and then when they go away to college you are still young enough to travel the world and come back and ejoy your grand kids!
2006-08-20 17:58:53
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answered by davecz4 2
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