he took in my 2 children and is the best father to them but i think hes either getting bored with me or just wants out.. what do i do.. we are engagedto be married soon and i feel like he is the only one to be with... like i said the best father in the world to my children (Age 4 and almost 6)
2006-08-20 10:28:44 · 10 answers · asked by jazzysgurl102503 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he is a total all around awesome guy.. big on family.. close with all of them expecially his mother... maybe its cold feet with him but i am scared
2006-08-20 10:52:03 · update #1
Well if you're going to marry him you should be open with your feelings. Try talking to him.
2006-08-20 10:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by LemonyFresh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. If he is not ready U need to know before U end up in an unhappy marriage. Maybe he's having cold feet, I mean he isn't just getting a new wife. He's getting a ready made family. That is going to be a huge responsibility to deal with. Make sure the situation is right for all involved, especially the children.
2006-08-20 10:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by Timber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend, taking in 2 kids 2 get the goodies ain't hard. The problem is when you want/need more, that's when the problem comes in. Watch how he treats his mother and if he treats her like dirt, then you know what 2 look forward 2. Then the bigger ? is Do u want just a good father or do u also want a great husband?
2006-08-20 10:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Ladeshug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicate your insecurities to your partner.
Have an open and honest conversation. Choose the moment carefully. Perhaps create space, the children in bed, or take him out, so you will not be disturbed. He may then be able to put your mind at rest or you may find he is feeling insecure or worried at the marriage thing.....communication is the key.....always.
2006-08-20 10:36:49 · answer #4 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to have a heart to heart & remind him that you are still very much in love with him & you appreciate his role w/yoour children....Maybe counseling if he's alittle scared & needs to work thru some issues. Good Luck!
2006-08-20 10:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...what others said: talk to him openly. If you can't talk openly with your partner about such important feelings, you shouldn't be getting married to them anyway.
2006-08-20 10:42:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey man! u should talk to him and tell him that how much u love him.u should share ur feelings with him.
2006-08-20 10:42:28 · answer #7 · answered by jiya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love someone, set them free. If they were yours, they will come back to you. If not, it was never meant to be.
2006-08-20 11:51:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him how he feels.
2006-08-20 10:43:58 · answer #9 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...if you're engaged you seriously need to talk to him...
2006-08-20 10:36:14 · answer #10 · answered by Niki S. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋