8 people have died within the past 3 years of my life including one on friday. I'm only 15, that's alot to go through don't u think? Plus I'm still confused with a guy that likes me but I'm not sure if I like him back...can someone help me so I'm not so depressed anymore?
2006-08-20 10:17:26 · 10 answers · asked by K 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
just try to do something that will cheer you up like go out to the mall and buy something for yourself. try to cheer up a bit. everyone goes through it at some point in your life so your not the only one. talk to someone about it that usually gets it out of your symptom. about this guy maybe give it a few weeks and then see how you feel cause your going through alot right now and your feelings maybe arent what they normally are so just keep hanging with him and see how you feel in a few. If he is there for you during this hard time and not hanging around with his friends. He just may be a keeper.
god bless
2006-08-20 10:50:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have they died or been killed???? Either way find joy in living. At 15 what type of hobby do you have that does not include a boy. Do you do any community service; are you in the Big Sister program, do you go to the Boys and girls club, the YMCA, have you taken a babysitting course, try visiting the local SPCA and help with the animals, tutor kids in 1st - 4th grade, read to the elderly. You are the breathe of fresh air to someone but you have not shown that talent to anyone. Focus on the better things in life, and that's what you'll draw to you.
to Blessed to be Stressed. God Bless.
2006-08-20 17:27:59 · answer #2 · answered by BmoreBabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey chocolatechip, I am sorry for your loss. Maybe it will help to hear that my son, who is 10 lost 5 people within just a few months and 2 cherished pets. He lost his grandma, who kept him while I worked, his babysitter who had him because she loved him on the days my mom needed to go to the city, his best friend, a classmate and a friend from preschool. His two cats died within weeks of his grandma dying. Depression goes with loss. You have to experience it and work through it to move on. It is a learning experience as well as a part of life. Remembering the best of the lost ones is the best way to work through it. Writing letters, or journaling is another healthy way to cope. I think counseling is a very good idea too. It helps to talk to trusted adults that have experience in this area. Good luck chocochip. Prayers with you. Nana
2006-08-20 17:29:41 · answer #3 · answered by nanawnuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how bout some jokes??
ok, there was a blonde, a brunette and a red head standing right in front of sudam husain getting redy to get killed with guns and all. Now u know,none of them wanted to get killed.So the brunette yelled, "Tornado!" and sudam looked back and the brunette ran away. So he looked back at the red and the blonde and this time the red head said "Earthquake!" he looked back, she ran away. so now it was only the blonde standing there and she yelled "FIRE!"
get it??? fire your guns?? hahahaha....4 more go 2 jokes.com
heres another:
ok there was a guy walking in the middle of no where when he finally came 2 a little shack where there was a guy sellin donkeys. the man asked the guy there if he could borrow a donkey to get somewhere. "ok but there are religius donkeys, to make it stop , u need 2 say jesus christ and 2 make it go you need to say praise the lord." the man took one of the donkeys and was off. he was riding for a while when suddently the donkey started galloping ... torwards a cliff ! so the man screamed: "JESUS CHRIST ,JESUS CHRIST!!!" The donkey stopped at the edge of the cliff and the guy said "pffffewf! praise the lord!"
i just thought those were pretty funny.
2006-08-20 17:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by Tigers Gal! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened to me only it was five people that died (and they were close people too). it is a lot to go through but it's a healing process that everyone has to go through or you'll become emotionally numb from things. try (i know it's hard) to put the deaths aside for just a moment whil you debate the pros and cons on this guy between your heart and your head. the sun will shine again. hope is never out of reach. ask yourself what you like about him and whether you'd like him more, ya know? there are always comforting words and arms nearby, and it's not coming out of your computer either.
2006-08-20 17:30:21 · answer #5 · answered by sweetiethatcares 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Counselling can help. Dealing with death is such a big stress and you may need to find ways to work through it by a pro. Good luck. Sorry for your losses.
2006-08-20 17:40:27 · answer #6 · answered by sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God loves you and if you are faithful to him you will go to Heaven someday. Stop worrying about earthly matters and start worrying about Heaven. One day you will be in Heaven with those dead People
2006-08-20 17:54:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww..
im really sorry..
lol now im sad. =[
i would say ...try to make the most of life right now...like..with the things u have before there gone..
2006-08-20 18:20:43 · answer #8 · answered by applebottom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-20 17:27:49 · answer #9 · answered by Zsazsa A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
email me and we can talk hs_teen_08@yahoo.com
2006-08-20 17:36:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋