Like this guy and we are connected thru work. we've had quite a few drinks and started to meet up and get closer and text a lot (not physical yet tho). Then i went away on hols for 2 weeks. Since back a few days ago we've texted loads about fun stuff but he hasnt asked to meet - how do i check if hes still interested without looking stupid?
2006-08-20 09:47:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Rach,
I thought you were interested in keeping your marriage. I had read through your past questions and you're bouncing around like a giddy school girl.
You're a married woman who is planing an affair (if in fact the guy is still interested). On one hand you come off all holy like you've met your mistake...asking for hel and all that...then most of your questions center around how do you let the other guy know you're interested.
You need to get divorced and allow your husband to find a stable, decent girl.
Why do you do what you do????? This is self destructive behavior at best.
Keep what shred of honor you might still have. Telll your husband you want out tonight and then pursue your lust in complete freedom. I just hope and pray you don't have pray children yet!
You are really a piece of work.
2006-08-20 10:37:46 · answer #1 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WHY is it where it comes to "hooking up", it is Automatically assumed that it's the Guy who has to make the first move???
You women Always say that you are "equal" to men. If you are going to talk the talk, then learn to walk the walk!
....and contrary to the feminine idiom, you Don't need to have a staff meeting with all your girl friends and poll them(take a vote) as to whether or not you should ask a guy out!!!
After reading hoyhoydc's post, I had to come back an edit mine down to just One statement:
Quit trying to play yourself off as a "good girl" and just ask the guy if he wants to F--K. I'd do a married chick after all, a free piece is a free piece!
2006-08-20 17:05:32 · answer #2 · answered by thart090 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that since the both of u are connecting some how, so what about YOU asking him out? don't seem too excited about it, just ask him as an amigo, if he told stupid reason about not being able to hanging out, then perhaps he's not interested. But since he's texting u alot, i believe that he is interested. Ask him girl! it's cool!
good luck :)
2006-08-20 16:56:04 · answer #3 · answered by Hendrix_lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask to meet up soon because you would really like to see him. Am sure you will sort of half find out by his responce. Try not to read into things too much. I do that and it just messes you up inside.
2006-08-20 16:53:59 · answer #4 · answered by Mr looking for answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out ureself if he says no, ask about another day and if he says no again then he doesn't like u nymor unless he then suggests another day.
2006-08-20 17:19:18 · answer #5 · answered by Potteress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is ...trust me.
A man doesn't bother texting too much if he's not interested!
Go out with him...he fancies you!
2006-08-20 16:55:05 · answer #6 · answered by Gypsie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him along for a drink.
If he declines two specific invitations, give it up.
2006-08-20 16:54:08 · answer #7 · answered by Wax Crayon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out.
2006-08-20 16:53:14 · answer #8 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two ways to check...1) get involved with someone else, if he gets jealous, he's still interested. 2) simply ask him
2006-08-20 16:55:11 · answer #9 · answered by ~*~Nobody Important~*~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him over or go over to hes place
2006-08-20 16:52:46 · answer #10 · answered by Richie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋