2006-08-20 09:41:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I honestly don't think that there is a time restraint on love. I say go with your heart and if it doesn't work out, chalk it up to one of lifes experiences.
2006-08-20 15:17:34 · answer #1 · answered by Monie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love at first site, no! True love builds as you get to know the person.
Lust at first site, Yes! I believe this happens much too often, and people take this for love.
No, I wouldn't marry that soon. If you are meant to be together then you will be. Why rush it, it's better to work the rough edges out before getting married. If you are thinking " There are no rough edges"
It's because you haven't known each other long enough.
The divorce rate is so high now because marriage is not taken as a forever thing anymore. The thoughts are always weighing in the back of peoples minds, if it doesn't work out then we can always get divorced. Marriage should be considered as a forever life with that person. Through all the times you think he/ she is a jerk, through all the times he/she forgot your anniversary, birthday or other special occasion,Through the dull times, the burn out times, the I can't stand you anymore times! Until someone is ready to commit to this, and vow to stay committed without conditions then they are not ready to get married. Enjoy the moment your in, take you time getting to really know this person and don't rush a good thing.
2006-08-20 10:01:43 · answer #2 · answered by Cjs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could certainly fall for someone instantly yes indeed! One month is nowhere near long enough to know someone well enough to know if it's LOVE you're in love with or the person...everyone is SWEPT away by love at first...hot passion soon turns into a warm glow and unless you work at it and fan the flame soon after there may be just embers left and eventually nothing but sadness and loneliness. You have to bask in those warm fuzzies. That's what it's all about; but for some, doing so for the rest of your life just ain't good enough, and it's time to move on out in search of the next conquest...why do you think none of the Hollywood ditzies last for long? They meet/marry/have kids/run into problems/and split usually within a year or 2 tops. There's no reason for fidelity in todays world of nothingness and "ME is all that matters"...which is sad...because hearts are ruined and broken and some never mend at all and people just carry garbage and resentment around for ever and ever more.
2006-08-20 09:57:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do believe that you can fall in love with someone the first time you meet them. But for it to be real, it needs to endure. My fiance and I have known each other for over 2 years. We were friends first and I know I fell for him the day I met him. Our friendship has now turned into so much more and we are both glad that we have that solid foundation. I would not recommend marrying someone after knowing them only a month. If it is real it will last. I hope things go well for you. And enjoy being in love!
2006-08-20 10:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by chris' angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in faith and love at first sight but id never marry a person i knew for only a month.
2006-08-20 09:46:58 · answer #5 · answered by baby gurl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no such thing as love at first sight, that is call LUST! I personally would not marry a person after a month, simply because it takes years to actually know a person. It takes a lifetime to gt to know someone. If you want to be commited to someone just tell them you love being with them give them a key to your place or something, not marriage!
2006-08-20 09:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by Juicy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... i believe in 'love at first sight' and I did marry him. We've been married for 12 years... dated 8 mos.
2006-08-20 12:04:39 · answer #7 · answered by anree74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no and no. not enough time to make the determination that you could live with this person for the rest of your life. love at first site in my opinion is only infatuation. love comes from the inside. getting to know a person. good luck
2006-08-20 10:06:02 · answer #8 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is love at first sight, but
if you marry after only a month that is stupidity for life....
get to know the person... dont rush
2006-08-20 09:48:13 · answer #9 · answered by locuaz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it exist,but I wouldn't marry someone after a month.
2006-08-20 09:51:18 · answer #10 · answered by anitababy.brainwash 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋