ok my best freind is a girl and she has a boyfreind who is in college but shes only a jr.in highschool! they fight all the time and he treats her like ****!everytime i try to talk to her she is eithier sad or crying! i told her to leave him but she says she loves him! and that shes waiting for him to change! after a year he still hasent changed!!!!! shud she leave him or stay with him????
2006-08-20 09:37:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dump that ************
2006-08-20 09:42:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend doesn't know enough to leave the creep then you may have to get others to talk to her too to let her know what a fool she is to even think she loves that creep.
If she insists that she loves him no matter how many times he makes her cry and fights with her then I truly believe your friend needs professional help while she's still young. If she continues down this road of disaster she will no doubt end up either dead or in a physic ward and no one wants that to happen to her.
Please don't give up on her but have other friends of hers tell her what you've been telling her and try to keep her away from the creep before it's to late for her.
She really doesn't love him but I think he's her first love and that's not an easy thing to get over for anyone.
2006-08-20 16:48:29 · answer #2 · answered by fedupmoma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a year she should have been let him go because he in college and his reason for acting like he act maybe because he has someone there where he is. Why don't you buy her a real nice card and bear and ask her out.. I think you are more concerned and care about her feelings than he does so why not.
2006-08-20 16:45:03 · answer #3 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yalll are friends so tell how you feel (you care about her)
Because if they fight all the time it aint worth it. People get hurt and even killed in serios arguements and i dont know your friend but i know shes probably a great person so she should dump him
2006-08-20 16:50:37 · answer #4 · answered by catlover092 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously the relationship isn't getting any better so she should leave him .Heck she should have been left him .If she's always crying and there always fighting then that's a big sign for worse to come so tell your friend to leave him quick fast and in a hurry
2006-08-20 16:45:20 · answer #5 · answered by wetnwildcherry2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has to make her own decisions, but she needs to leave him. If he has not changed in a year, more than likely he never will and she does not need the heartache that he is giving her.
2006-08-20 16:43:24 · answer #6 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him directly whether he is intersted or not? enjoy life dear! this is ur life and u gonna live this in ur way. so do only that what u likes and never tries to read others mind. this is impossible.
or toss with a coin
2006-08-20 16:46:19 · answer #7 · answered by belligerent_2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not changing and she needs to leave him. However none of this is your business, and if you advise her to do either and it backfires, she will blame you. Be empathetic but keep your advice to yourself.
2006-08-20 16:44:00 · answer #8 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so my best friend is a guy, so we're totally on the same page.
umm, i think she should drop him on his ***. its pretty pathetic that he has to date someone that much younger than him in the first place. he's just using her. he's a dumbass.
take care of her.
2006-08-21 09:13:09 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't deserve her love.
Don't forget , he isn't the last man in Universe !!!
2006-08-20 16:45:14 · answer #10 · answered by Susana C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him.
2006-08-20 16:46:00 · answer #11 · answered by guess2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋