My ex-boyfriend still has feelings for me and also has feelings for another girl (who considers him as her boyfriend). He always tells me that he is not comitted to her but he has feelings towards her! And he keeps on giving me hints to get back together, or sometimes he is straight forward with me and just says it! I don't know what to do! i asked him to pick, but he says that it is too hard.. He doesnt want to regret anything and he doesn't want to hurt anyones feelings! But i am stuck in the middle and confused as hell, wondering what to do.. I do have feelings for him but sometimes i just hate him for what he's putting me through! The other day i told him that we will never get back together, but he just answered "don't promise yourself that, cuz we might" What the hell is that supposed to mean?!?! And at the same time, i think he treats the other girl the same way.. Please help me and tell me what to do!
2006-08-20 09:29:29 · 8 answers · asked by tam_dab 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Girlie let me tell you what's going through this dumb *** head. First of all he is stringing both of you females along. He keeps telling you that he cares about you and might get back with you just to keep you around in case the other female leaves his butt high and dry. See he has two females that cares about him and probably will do almost anything for him, why in the hell would he give that up?! I wouldn't! You gotta be smart baby girl, you gotta turn the table around on him and make him want you more than you want him. Go on dates, don't answer 75% of his phone calls, ask him advice on guys, get a new hair do and if he ask you why u got it tell him you want to impress a guy or something. You CANNOT keep being his doll, that he keeps on a shelf and takes down when he's ready to play. You are the boss and quite frankly I think he doesn't deserve you, so make sweat then kick him to the side and enjoy your young life!
2006-08-20 09:42:16 · answer #1 · answered by Juicy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So sorry to hear that you are going through one of life's young female problems. As a woman, I once too went through the same thing, as well as all of my female friends.....Let me tell you from experience that your male friend is playing one BIG GAME with your emotions....I know you think that he will change, or that if you continue to go along that it will be just the two of you--That will never be.....Sorry.. But I must tell you the truth. I know it hurts....You are beautiful, and intelligent...DO NOT continue this destructive battle of the heart. He doesn't choose. YOU CHOOSE. Choose to be by yourself....No contact at all. via phone, letter, through friends, e-mails etc.....Believe me you will look back on this and say I can't believe I let someone put me through that roller coaster. One more thing I'm sure of--- you will pass this exact same information on to another.
2006-08-20 10:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that you should do it.. if he has feelings for someone else how do u kno one day he wont say well im tired of this nd goes to her... he just wants u to be there as his backup plan . Dotn put yourself through it.
2006-08-20 09:44:35 · answer #3 · answered by Alaina B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DROP HIM! hes a player. dont fall for it, especially when its right there in front of u. If he cant pick then obviosly he dont care about u that much, hes not worth ur time.
2006-08-20 09:45:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you better forget this loser and move on with the rest of your life. You are worth so much more and shouldn't have to deal with this creep. Move on!!!!!!
2006-08-20 10:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by PsychoSam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never travel down old roads. Especially if they were bumpy and had pot holes.
2006-08-20 11:57:19 · answer #6 · answered by gee-geeofmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to do that again, so what he can dump you again when someone else comes along?
2006-08-20 09:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him hes a loser and a player.You deserve better.
2006-08-20 09:57:29 · answer #8 · answered by nanny2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋