I am married to a man who will not let me parent my child buy my own clothes or pay the bills well enough tobuy a 99 cent hamburger and we do nto have penetration sex my ex boyfriend thast I have cheated with before is back in the picture what should I do ...should I mention the fact also that i have a foster son that I ma trying to adopt
2006-08-20 09:24:45 · 19 answers · asked by cora7391 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This man sounds very controlling, I think you need to ask yourself if it is a good idea for you to still even be in this relationship...also is it a good idea to adopt in this situation? You might think about that, I don't reccommend cheating...also why isn't there penetration, for what reason? I would try to talk to the husband & let thim know how you are feeling...if he is abusive at all please be careful. Good Luck!
2006-08-20 09:33:00 · answer #1 · answered by KatieJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet thing he sounds chauvanistis. This can lead to horrible resentment. I know from experience. Youre not a slave. Love counts too not just sex. If youre cheating he could abuse you when he finds out. Make a choice. If youre working ask yourself do you love the boyfriend more" and then choose where you want to be. Forget adoption right now.
2006-08-20 16:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds pretty complicated, but really you do need some independence and a say in things, be careful about adding a third person into the mix of things.
2006-08-20 16:31:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have allowed yourself to be trapped by a control freak.. Run don't walk out the door and don't look back..
2006-08-20 16:38:55 · answer #4 · answered by cin_ann_43 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sister, you have some seriuos problems..Why dont you and your husband have sex?? He's not gays is he??
Well, stop cheating--you are a mother now and this has to stop..As far as your husband, you guys need counceling--ASAP.
Peace
2006-08-20 16:33:19 · answer #5 · answered by Plus-Sized &Proud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the hell out ,you can still addopt the child ,but if it was me letting you have a child and you couldnt even take it to do i wouldnt let you have it ,what a life ,get away from him hes nuts and dont own you ,go where you are happy ,its your life not his.
2006-08-20 16:34:47 · answer #6 · answered by whitecloud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu should NEVER hide your child(ren) from anyone as they are the MOST important part of you... as for your hubby, if you're that unhappy you should really leave him!
2006-08-20 16:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should learn to type correctly, cuz I dont really understand what the hell your asking
2006-08-20 16:43:11 · answer #8 · answered by foxxyy44u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just need to go on the "Maury" show. He will ensure that you are pumped up.
2006-08-20 16:35:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not divorce your husband instead of cheat on him?
2006-08-20 18:06:46 · answer #10 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋