my 2 year crush, my best guy friend... is leavin for college today.... i am so depressed u dont even know.. all i can think of is him not being at hs anymore and i already miss him!! and he has a gf, so i dont want to talk to him too much.. and i like his gf.. so its not like i will try to get him... but what can i do to get my mind off everytihing?? thank u so so much! anything will help
2006-08-20 08:19:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Perhaps the seperation will bring him to realize that he is for you and you 2 will get together!!!
It'll be worth it in the end.
2006-08-20 08:25:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am assuming you are a high school-er...crushes are normal and should be savored. They are just "practice" to learn how to deal with emotions while you are waiting for the right guy. Celebrate the fact of the crush. I suggest that you go do something for somebody else - volunteer, give blood if you can, tutor kids, feed the homeless, etc. You never know how doing that can help, not only because you stop thinking about the guy (and yourself), but because you never know what wonderful person you might meet who is also volunteering. The one I met that way has been married to me for 42 years!
2006-08-20 15:33:23 · answer #2 · answered by losteph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let yourself cry, and watch the music video, Where'd You Go by Fort Minor. I did that. Definetly take a nap after a really long cry, and cry yourself to sleep. I hope you feel better.
2006-08-20 15:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by Blink-182 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and do some sport - play a game of softball or go running do something vigorous tha you can get really involved in
2006-08-20 15:30:16 · answer #4 · answered by 1919 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing is to not stay at home mopping about the situation and find something that will occupy your time
2006-08-20 15:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by jarmall1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a counselor about your loss, and your choice of men.
2006-08-20 15:28:35 · answer #6 · answered by DrB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on to something else..he's attached anyway...
2006-08-20 15:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋