2006-08-20 08:05:26 · 29 answers · asked by keturah66 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we've been together for two actually three years ..i'm ready for the bells to ring
2006-08-20 14:26:52 · update #1
Nowadays as women we just have to be "straight up" (not aggressive) about what we want. Bring it to his attention that you want to know if he has any intentions of marrying you.......so that you not wasting your time.
You never said how old you are but I know that men, when they have found "the one". They usually don't waste their time and drag out the relationship no matter how "comitment phobic" they are. I am not saying your man is doing this to you but this is also something you might want to think about.
2006-08-27 11:33:21 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex is not a "next"step. Is there some secret book somewhere that explains all of this because I have yet to find it. I find it hilarious when people say the "next" step. Is he ready for that step? If he hasn't made a move on you or even brought it up he is either getting it from somewhere else (not likely if you have been together for three years) or he isn't ready. But if he has and if that is what you are wanting to do then you guys could go out and buy condoms together and when he gets that blank look on his face and asks what do you need those for you can tell him. Or you could be the bold one and set the mood. Have dinner or invite him over to watch a movie. Start with a kiss not a hurried kiss but a slow kiss. Then you can move to his neck and ears. If he doesn't respond something is wrong. From there you guys should be able to handle it.
2006-08-27 13:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by strawberries_r_cream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will assume you mean you are ready for marriage. We, as women, want EOE so therefore we can ask a man to marry us, as well. Propose to him! It will blow his mind, initially, so don't get mad if he don't answer right away. Give him some time even if take him a few weeks to answer you. Hopefully you guys have talked about marriage at some point and you know he's willing to marry you. Basically you can't show a man you are ready for marriage- show him. Let him know why you want to share the rest of your life with him. Keep us informed!
2006-08-28 07:51:58 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Essential 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 him an let him know how feel about the relationship and u feel that Ur ready 2 move 2 the next step in the relationship.
2006-08-28 02:21:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After three years if you haven't talked about this, I think you have a communication problem or a compatibility issue. If he hasn't proposed or even mentioned the "m" word, he is the one not ready for it. Advise: Don't force him. Work the communication.
2006-08-28 14:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by jencolon07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well young lady if you have to ask then i guess your still to young to know, when most grown women are ready for the next step they go right to work i wont explain because your to young to know but wait, if you held out this long you sure could wait a whole lot longer.
2006-08-28 10:59:01 · answer #6 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make little hints, and if he is a easy guy to talk to then work it into a conversation that you two are having. maybe he might be feeling the same way but not sure of how to come out and ask you how you feel about marriage.
2006-08-27 18:25:46 · answer #7 · answered by Champaine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to show him that you are ready is to prepare your self for life changes. i mean you need to protect yourself from getting pregnant and from catching any diseases. and then just tell him that your ready once you have done those things but make sure that he is that special someone
2006-08-28 12:39:32 · answer #8 · answered by wendy love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss
2006-08-24 19:54:04 · answer #9 · answered by Bunty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off how old are u? Are u even old enough to be hearing the bells?
2006-08-28 10:32:45 · answer #10 · answered by Veronica A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋