Last night, I should have not been driving home.
I was at a party witthout my husband - I got pulled over for having a head light out of all things.
The officer could tell I had been drinking , and was going to take me in.
There is simply no way my husband and I can afford the costs that would have been involved...and I cant go without my license at all.
I know i should have thought about this beforehand (please dont bash me fo that).
Anyhow...I did a sexual favor for the police officer (oral sex) to get out of the DUI.
My husband has a fantasy of me being with my old boyfriend, but i am afraid to tell hm about this.
We are both white, the cop was black - i'm not sure if that will matter.
Should I tell my husband??
Has anyone else done something this horrible to get out of a ticket?
Thanks.
2006-08-20 07:54:21 · 13 answers · asked by lisa_in_chi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hell no dont tell him.....he'll never look at you the same....if you know that you'll never do something like that again then dont tell him....if its eating you and you feel you have to tell then i guess u gotta do what makes you feel better....but part of your punishment should be to live with that guilt.....he doesnt deserve to have his feelings hurt because you did what you did
2006-08-20 08:01:33 · answer #1 · answered by me m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Danm I would do it to get out of a DUI.. LOL Sorry I would tell your husband. Tell him, or its always going to be on your mind and the next time you see a cop and your with your husband it could be a little weird for you. So I would get it off your chest if you can. GOOD LUCK try not to get around the subject if you go to tell him.. And the longer you wait the hard it can be...
2006-08-20 08:04:30 · answer #2 · answered by seeramey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-30 21:27:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you made a bad decision and the police officer involved made a poor decision,the fact that your white and he is black has nothing to do with it,i would have just taken the ticket and my punishment of losing my license,seek therapy the fact that you chose this route to begin with is not quite right to me,and discuss with the therapist how to handle this.because it may have an effect on your relationship with your husband,he may not be so forgiving.
2006-08-20 08:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by G. kravitz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure go tell your husband what you tried to pass off as the truth on here...Ain't no way you gave a cop a bj..!!! Just a little too unbelievable , but thanks for the 2 pts,
2006-08-20 08:02:58 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHORE!! What ru doing at a party without your man. Also what ru doing there sloppy drunk. I take you cheat on him alot.. Its cool I like women like that I have had alot of fun with women like you... But it gets old.......This is why I am not going to get married LOL
2006-08-20 08:12:18 · answer #6 · answered by 800 bound 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank You for Last Night!
2006-08-20 08:01:02 · answer #7 · answered by Handsup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 of my friends are cops- they say this happens more often than you think.
If I were the husband , I would want to know.
Especially if you say he wants to see you with another guy - he may find what happened exciting.
Good luck
2006-08-20 08:08:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah right
i dont think a cop will do somthing like that
not unless he's a really good friend of ur's
2006-08-20 08:29:18 · answer #9 · answered by naashomwheeler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice fantasy,
2006-08-20 08:21:12 · answer #10 · answered by Richie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋