if im your friend then i should tell you what I feel...what i think is right.... or you shouldn't ask me about my option
2006-08-20 07:46:29 · 6 answers · asked by lapeachroses 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Because some people don't want to face the truth; for them, it hurts. However, among true friends, truth is always demanded, no matter how hard or painful it maybe. It is openness that builds trust and respect, those that cement true friendship.
2006-08-20 08:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by Bummerang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is human just like u with feelings and as such, u would want to put urself in his/her shoes b4 saying anything and ask urself, how would I feel if I was spoken to this way. There's a way to to things and telling ur friend watever u like whenever u choose is not the way, u should at least use a bit of decorum when conveying ur opion so that ur friend will understand ur perspective and appreciate u for not only telling him/her but the manner in which it was done. So think about that the next time u wanna dish it out with no regard for ur friend's feelings.
2006-08-20 15:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're so right, yet, there is this thing called "RESPECT" not everyone can take the truth, friends or not. You can be honest with a person, in ways that are not hurtful. Always consider others before yourself.
2006-08-20 14:54:39 · answer #3 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to use tact when telling people your open honest opinion because you do not know their state of mind.
2006-08-20 15:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree but there is a gentle way to say things so that feelings don't have to be hurt.
2006-08-20 14:52:33 · answer #5 · answered by G. kravitz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
coz we r human.............we hav heart...hav feeling..that's y
2006-08-20 15:00:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋