Sometimes I feel it's more easyly to forgive other people than myself. Last year I made a decision that caused a deep remorse in my heart. Since that time I never feel happy anymore, everyday I only think about my fault. Now I hate myself and blame myself for it. I can't forgive myself and I am very suffer because of it.
2006-08-20 07:39:57 · 26 answers · asked by white jade 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Its always easier to forgive others,but we all make mistakes,you must not beat youreself up about it ,it will make you ill ,and im sure whatever it is ,its not worth that,we only get one life ,and im sure people have done a lot more guilt tripping things than you ,you are not alone ,at the end of the day you are are learning all the time ,make this a learning thing ,and tell yourself you can be forgiven ,just make sure you get it right next time,and as for hateing yourself ,well thats a bit stronge ,you cant be all bad or it wouldnt bother you ,i recon you are a loverly person ,with such a kind heart ,you must be or you would be so upset.look in the mirror and smile ,,,now then do that look like a horrible person ,,,no so there you go.put the past where it belong and have a loverly life,good luck
2006-08-20 08:15:10 · answer #1 · answered by whitecloud 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What exactly did you do ? Can that be amended ?
If the mistakes is irreverseable, then I would say can you be some advisor or mentor for some other people that may encounter the same situation like yourself. Now you are in hind sight and know exactly what you have done wrong and probably know what should have been done.
Go be some's guiding light and stop others to repeat your mistakes and foot steps.
You may continue to suffer for what you did but at least you will feel better for knowing you saved someone else from suffering.
Good luck and God bless you!
2006-08-20 14:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who said we were born perfect? Stop punishing yourself and get some professional help., unless you enjoy self pity? Take one step at time and in due time the pain will be less. I'm sorry that your going through this. Things happen for a reason and good will come out of it, it will just take time, try to let go and one day at a time. Take care!
2006-08-20 15:06:43 · answer #3 · answered by nicknacpattymac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you do it on purpose? Was your intent evil? If not, then you are ok, nothing to forgive. It is your intent that is important.
If you did do it with bad intent, then ask for forgiveness, and then remind yourself, each time you think of it, to 'Let go, and Let God' take care of it.
You are obviosly a good person, since you have a concious. Please let it go, and be good to yourself. That is the best thing you can do for yourself and for all of those who care for you.
Best wishes.
2006-08-20 14:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by ca H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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sorry about your pain, hope things get better.
2006-08-20 14:46:03 · answer #5 · answered by god 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you lack in self esteem. You need to realise that your an important person and that whenever you make a decsion it is the right one for you. We all make mistakes and it makes us learn and be stronger, maybe you need some help from your doctor.
2006-08-20 14:45:59 · answer #6 · answered by tillymint 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might try doing as many good things for other people as you can. Give yourself reasons to feel good about yourself. By doing this you will make others feel good as well. Even if it doesn't work, you are still making others happy.
2006-08-20 14:44:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will not complain of myself
If u think u did mistake and blame urself, it is ok
but u cannot blame everything on urself all the times
2006-08-20 14:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by snow l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean. i care for others more than myself---for the most part. and most people can forgive others easier than themselves just like you. so who ever you did bad to probably forgave you. do you get what i mean?
2006-08-20 14:45:57 · answer #9 · answered by Krissi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to correct whatever it is that you did, if possible in some way, and for that effort you should feel free of remorse..........
2006-08-20 14:46:29 · answer #10 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋