i b 13 n my 13 yer ol gurl b prenant?

Question

wut do i do

Answer 1

tis not baby's fault DO NOT get an abortion,there is organizations that can help you with everything you both need.go to your local health department,go with her to all doctors appointments and stand by her supporting her all the way,I was a parent when I was young and I could relate to my child in ways people that were older could'nt.some of the best parents are young,cause your still young enough to know what your child desires,because you just been through it yourself.It will be hard in the begining,but you both can do it,so unfortunate though that you both will miss out on your childhood.Look at the glass as half full...when your child is older you will still be young enough to get a sitter and have fun yourself.You will be able to watch your child grow old,You'll grow old together gracefully.I am a mother of 5 if you ever have any questions about anything,just reply

Answer 2

You need to talk to an adult that you trust and that has your best interest at heart. I would hope that the two of you have talked to a doctor also. I am sure that you're pretty scared and you are right to be. Being a parent at any age is very hard but especially so when you are so young. I was 18 When I had my first baby. I was already finished with my senior year of HS. So it didn't affect my graduating. If you choose to keep the baby finishing school will be difficult at best. You need to stay in school. You need to graduate and go to college. I have always regretted not going on to college. I worked full time from the time the baby was born and eventually worked up to having a good job but it took a long time (8 years). I would seriously talk to your girlfriend and an adult or counselor about the options available to you. Please consider them carefully. I never regretted having my baby but I do regret a lot of the things that I missed out on. I do not want to push my beliefs on you but I am adopted and I am grateful that I was. I respect my birth parents for having the courage to put me up for adoption (mother was 16 father was 17). I was raised by loving parents that were unable to have their own kids. Planned Parenthood is a great organization with very good people working for them. If you can not pay for medical care they will provide for free. They will help.

Answer 3

Well, first of all, BOTH of you need to talk to your parents about ALL of your options. You don't "have" to have the baby right now. Being that you're both 13, not to mention your terrible sentence structuring (no offense), both of you need to be more worried about school and growing up yourself before having a child. If you choose to have it, just realize, the next 25 years or so, is what you have made a commitment to. Also, are you sure she's pregnant? Have you seen the test?

I'm only asking because young girls sometimes have the tendency to "fake" a pregnancy for attention. Just be sure before you talk to your parents about a decision & DEFINTELY talk to your parents!

My god, you two aren't even OLD enough to work, yet.

Answer 4

Do NOT get an abortion! Give that baby a chance... what ever you do, try and convince your girlfriend that she needs to keep the baby and if she cannot raise it then she needs to give it the chance of a healthy, loving life by giving the baby up for adoption. Here is what you do now. First, you get her parents and your parents together at the same time. Tell your parents (and her parents) that you made your girlfriend pregnant. Let them know that you are sorry, you never intended on things going this way. Now, becuase you are the father you will need to get a job, that way, if your girlfriend decideds to keep the baby and raise it herself, you will have a way of paying some sort of child support. Whatever happens, there are two thing that MUST take place. 1. She needs to keep that baby, abortions are just the same as murder. Period. No "if's", "and's", or "but's". 2. You both need to stay in school.
~God bless

Answer 5

The fact that you're asking demonstrates that at least you feel responbility. Respect to you for that. Since we don't know what your situation is, nobody on here can give you very good advice. Keep the attitude of stepping up to your responsibility, though, and spread the word that sex is not a game for people who are not prepared for the possibility of becoming a parent. Follow your conscience -- since it's apparent that you have a good one -- and do the best you can for that child. He/she didn't ask to be conceived and shouldn't have to suffer for it. The most important thing is to support your girlfriend and her decisions. It's not fair, but it usually ends up that most of the responsiblity of raising a child (and ALL the responsibility of pregnancy!) will fall on the mother, so her wishes should be respected... and even defended by the man who is responsible. You don't prove your manhood by having sex with a girl -- you prove it by how you handle the consequences. Good luck to you.

Answer 6

I had my daughter when I was a teenager and I stayed in school. if I can do it, so can you. BTW I did it by myself. So be a man and stick with her. DO NOT GET AN ABORTION because you will be haunted with the thought of the baby you killed. I fyou guys dont want the baby then send it up for an adoption. I am sure that you can get some help from family and community services in your area. Good Luck

Answer 7

What the F*(%!!! Let me tell ya, kid....times sure have changed! When I was 13 I wasn't even THINKIN of having sex!
Times SURE have changed!

First....keep you a$$ in school so you know how to write or better yet say a correct and complete sentence!
Second......Get your a$$ together with the girfriend, her parents, and your parents and tell them the news. GOOD LUCK...you will probably get an a$$ beating by your parents then her parents...Hope your ready! *giggle*
Third.....get your a$$ a job at McDonalds (you may be too damn young to work even there!) Or try to work second hand work at a construction site or better yet...mow lawns! HA HA HA :P
Fourth.....tell your dumb a$$ girl that she should have kept her $h*t on lock and you should have kept your $h*t in your pants!

LORD HELP THESE COMPLETLY HELPLESS KIDS! (yes...note that I said kids...cuz thats what yall are...KIDS...sleeping around like yall are adults...in adult situations....)

Answer 8

You need to tell your parents. You need to start going to school. Hopefully you'll be able to learn enough to be able to fill out an application at McDonalds since that's where you'll be working for the rest of your life. You'll be giving your child at least 1/4 of your paycheck till they're at least 18. You also need to talk to someone about safe sex since you may have missed that point in health class. If you're not ready to have a child, then you shouldn't be having sex.

Answer 9

First of all..you should know that you are in a great deal of trouble..and that what just happened to you is wanting to grow up too fast. Your both kids! instead of having fun like normal 13yr old would do, you go having sex. Now you have to face the consequences...well you must tell someone. Like maybe one of your parents..it's going to be hard but it's the best solution so far. Both your parents can talk and figure out what decision to take.
Next time please think twice before trying to grow up too fast.
Take care and hope things sort out well for you.

Answer 10

you help her with the child and don't leave her by herself. it is going to be very hard for both of you but with the support of family and friends you will get through it . I know that because i was only 15 when i ot pregnant and now i am 26 and happily married and have a great life. Just stand up to your responsibilities.