This Q is to Guys and ladies who are married.Tell me do u feel guilty immeditely after sex with some one else other than ur Spouse.
2006-08-20 06:42:15 · 20 answers · asked by don ven 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would never have sex with anyone other than my spouse, so in my case, I don't feel guilty after sex. Cheating is wrong, and disrespectful
2006-08-20 06:49:45 · answer #1 · answered by Just Me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should feel guilty immediately after cheating if you don't already.
Cheaters suck.
I agree, if you have the urge to cheat, you should talk it over with your spouse.
Both people in the relationship might concur that an open relationship is just what the doctor ordered.
You should ask yourself why you are cheating and discuss the issues with your spouse, chances are you could work it out.
2006-08-24 08:59:41 · answer #2 · answered by Inquisitive1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never had sex with someone other than my spouse cuz she's the perfect fit for me but if I did the guilt would completely overwhelm me physically, mentally and spiritually. If you don't feel guilty then you don't belong in a committed relationship with ANYBODY.
2006-08-27 15:28:48 · answer #3 · answered by Child of the 80's 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I had an affair while with my first wife. Actually with the wonderful lady that I'm with now. This was after the decision to leave was already made. But after seeing the pain and hurt it caused yes I did feel a sense of guilt. You don't realize until after the fact how much it hurts others.
2006-08-20 07:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes of course one must feel guilty even if you have the least feelings for your partner that's why it's best to always draw the line so both knows his/her limits.
Intimacy is a union,one can't take lightly not even just for fun.In a triangle,all people concerned gets the kick and that's going to be heartbreaking for everyone if it's just to kill time..leisure isn't wasting someone elses' time&loving care attention.
Just stick to your principles and learn to say "no" every now & then.Once shattered it's irreplacable so just don't bother if a moment of ecstasy equals a chain reaction of unstability,sadness and heartaches...it's just not worth it.
2006-08-27 07:26:23 · answer #5 · answered by cascadingrainbows 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are at a place that you're having sex with someone other then your spouse then you're probably not capable of quilt
2006-08-26 10:46:46 · answer #6 · answered by aly_girl501 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who is married should not have sex with someone else and if you do, or feel the urge you should tell your partner. Not you but he/she should make the discion. By not telling the truth you are not giving them chance.
2006-08-20 07:42:40 · answer #7 · answered by Sadaf 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what! i'd feel guilty right before i'm about to do it.. i'd feel guilty even while doing it.. i feel guilty even after doing it.. i'd feel guilty for the rest of my fu*king life.. if u love this perosn.. of course your going to feel guilty.. how could u even look them in they eye and not even tell them you cheated on them?.. how could anyone live with themselves.. its a hard pill to swallow on both ends.. i cheated on my boyfriend and i did it not becouse i liked the other person.. but becouse he preasured me into it.. i wouldnt call it rape.. but i had so much presure.. lets just say i did it so that he'd leave me alone.. besides the point.. i know when i did that i hurt him.. i know apart of him will never forget that and i broke his heart and even though he may seem find.. in the back of his mind he has to live with the fact that me.. his one & only.. cheated on him.. i have to live with that forever.. and its hard.. becouse we're truly truly maddly in love.. don't do it.. if u did do it.. come clean..
2006-08-28 05:23:42 · answer #8 · answered by u lovee it ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel guilty already just to think of sleeping with other.... How much more doing it..
2006-08-28 06:42:50 · answer #9 · answered by lolipop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should feel guilty you got someone at home that you are married too. you did not say how long you have been married but its not fair at all to the one you said "i do" too. quit acting single you are a married man!!!
2006-08-26 22:43:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋