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i have lots off friends, 2 full time jobs, my own house, comunity's respect, great family, lots of money, fancy and fast car and bike, not full of myself, love to work,and party, and stay home. love to listen to women,and if aneyone in the world needed my help i would do my best to help them

2006-08-20 06:34:56 · 45 answers · asked by TO FAST TO FURIOUS 3 in Entertainment & Music Polls & Surveys

my name here is the name off my fishing boat.

2006-08-20 06:36:24 · update #1

ANY SIZE girls no prefrances. no im not a loozer. and a long way from ugly and im not bragging, im telling the truth

2006-08-20 06:49:07 · update #2

tired off seeing nice girls with dic k heads for b/f when guys like me are single

2006-08-20 06:51:15 · update #3

2 jobs 1 lasts 8 months 8am to 5 pm 2nd lasts 2 months 3am to 10am ok THAT MAKES 2 FULL TIME JOBS OK.

2006-08-20 07:07:16 · update #4

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You sound like a really nice guy. And if nothing absolutely nothing is wrong with you then I don't see why you are having such problems in your life. You sound like you have everything that a girl could dream of. Maybe this is your time in life to be single and see what you are really looking for in a woman. A lot of woman want a bad boy though just to let you know. I know that kinda sounds stupid but its the truth. Good guys are hard to come by and you will hear a lot of girls saying that even though you are right in their face. You are probably just a little to friendly so a lot of girls see you as a friend and want to confide in you. Just be yourself and keep your head up because loneliness can't last forever. That is my new motto because I feel like that all the time. Just live for today and let tomorrow come as it will come.

Your destiny will be fulfilled when it is your time. Wait for it and don't settle for anything less than the best.

2006-08-20 07:20:03 · answer #1 · answered by Erica 3 · 1 0

You didn't outline why you feel good guys finish last.

I have felt that way at times when I was younger. I soon realized that the girls I felt I "missed" with; the ones that always chose the bad boys...turns out those are the lower-quality girls anyway. Now I look back and thank God I didn't end up with one of them!

One suggestion...

You described a lot of "stuff" and how hard you work in order to buy the "stuff" instead of describing much of what would make you a good guy. Thats fine if you are interested in materialistic girls who just need a cash cow. Do you WANT to be a cash cow? I don't think so. So my suggestion is to not even mention your assets at all with a woman until the 6th date...maybe 10th...maybe after she accepts your proposal. You'll end up with a much higher quality girl.

2006-08-20 06:46:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

You're probably looking for the wrong types of ladies. The types that would go for bad guys. And besides, I don't think nice guys finish last, just weak guys. Nice guys can be strong too.

2016-03-26 23:02:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Well, if all these things are true, it sounds like you're a really great guy.

How old are you?
Where do you live?

No, seriously, it sounds like you need to stop and think about the kind of women you go after. That may be where you're going wrong. You need only to date women who want to date a genuinely nice guy...

I hate the whole nice guys finish last thing, let's prove them wrong!

Good luck out there!

2006-08-20 07:28:12 · answer #4 · answered by Sara 2 · 1 0

So by what measure do you consider yourself finishing last? Sounds like life is pretty good! Just don't get caught up thinking you deserve a cookie for your efforts. Just be yourself, enjoy your life, roll with the punches. The "why not me" attitude is lab-tested, 100% effective female repellent.

If it doesn't spark with one, don't get all depressed and dwell on your problems, just move on. Life is short, may as well enjoy the ride, no matter who's along. And don't waste *any* brain cells on trying to figure out why chicks go for jerks- that's like trying to figure why people buy stuff from infomercials, or why people go to Vegas expecting to win big bucks.

2006-08-20 06:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by C-Man 7 · 1 0

You didn't explain the finishing last part- your description sounds like you're a great young man! You should be very proud of all you've accomplished and don't waste time comparing yourself to others. If you are referring to the dating scene or marriage or any of that, put yourself in places where you'll meet worthy and loving people.... do you belong to a church or synagogue?

2006-08-20 06:43:10 · answer #6 · answered by C. S 4 · 0 0

What's the question? Finish last at running races? Don't get the girl? What do you mean?

Oh, ok. you added some details.

Maybe you are aiming for women who are "out of your league". The most beautiful women always have lots of men around them, so you are facing tough competition there. Try women who are less conventionally attractive but you still think are pretty.

Also maybe some of your anger is coming across.

Also maybe you could try looking at various statistics, and choosing women who fit them - for example women tend to go for men who are say four to eight inches taller than them. They tend to go for men who are a couple of years older than them. They tend to go for men who earn more than them and have been educated to a higher level and so on.

All the best.

2006-08-20 06:45:16 · answer #7 · answered by fieldmouse 3 · 1 0

It sounds like you are describing yourself in terms of material things. Car, Boat, Bike, Money etc. So far the only things that is relevent is that you said that you are ready to help people.
What does it mean that you finish last?

2006-08-20 06:43:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Will you marry me?

Too many women are too shallow to recognize what's truly important in a man. Don't give up. You'll find a smart one sooner or later. Good men don't stay single forever -- just don't make the mistake of lowering YOUR standards!

2006-08-20 06:40:55 · answer #9 · answered by bikerpjb 4 · 1 0

You have to be patient. Nothing worth having is easy to get. Sounds like you have done a wonderful job of working on yourself, so continue to build a better you. The worst mistake we make is seeking to be loved rather than loving.

2006-08-20 06:42:12 · answer #10 · answered by cocob 2 · 1 0

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