is there any way to cope with this pain?

Question

i just told my husband that i do love him but im not in love with him!just for his own sake!i just feel too lonely although we live too far from each other!i just left classes and sit and cry!need to talk to some one who can understands me!what shall i do to cope with this pain?

Answer 1

what kind of pain you're going through?pain for setting him free?why you're affected if you're not inlove with him anymore?i guess you feel that you're not inlove with him anymore becoz of you're apart to each other and maybe lack of communication.To succeed the marriage it needs communication no matter how the couple busy in their everyday lives.You must evaluate yourself first before you told him that.You got hurt coz still he has a space in your heart.You will only be in a right track once you felt out of love,but if the love still there it is hard to cope up with the pain that we're going through.

Answer 2

Unfortunatly this is one of those situations where time is all there is to heal the pain you feel. Drowning ur sorrows in alcohol or other drugs will not help they will just make you a druggy or alcy and still depressed lol.

Hey all i can say is hold your head up high as you will meet mr right i garauntee

Answer 3

i was you 10 months ago. Just focus all your pain in bettering yourself. Work on yourself. Write all your feelings in a journal with time you will see improvment in your life. Let all your emotions out don't supress them. E-mail me if you need to talk

Answer 4

Nothing heals pain like time just give your self time you will be OK.

Answer 5

Find a friend.

Answer 6

Alcohol will help