my bff is ok but she seems to like this new girl more than me though she said she liked me more. she didn't call me back the other nite like she promised because she called the other girl. i was thinking on telling the other girl that she liked me more. i never wanted to be my bff's friend anyway, but i can't seem to let go. i need major help asap!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-20 06:30:10 · 9 answers · asked by Cari 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I've been through this before. Let your BFF decide what she wants to do, I mean if she's showing the other girl more attention than you then that just means that she's more interested in her than you. She already knows everything about you and maybe she just likes getting to know other people ya know....Just wait and she wat she decides...another thing you could do would be to start talking to other girls and meeting new friends and new people to help you get your mind off of her...
2006-08-20 06:39:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel like you can't let go because you're experiencing rejection and that's VERY difficult. Just like with married people, sometimes someone comes along that seems much more exciting and interesting than the husband or wife at home but, after the initial newness wears off, the friend will find that the NEW friend isn't all that after all and will seek your company (and forgiveness) once again.
That may or may not happen but you can't stop your best female friend from having other friends. You wouldn't want her acting like a jealous lover with you, would you?
Try not to be a harpy and make yourself look bad while she's making new friends. Pick one of your other friends and start doing more with them. You might find that they're the better friend anyway.
2006-08-20 06:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by Hidden .38 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy shite.....this sounds like a "relationship" not a friendship.
NEway....why can't you ALL just be friends together...sounds like you're a bit on the possessive and obsessive side. You better get over that because it's going to cause you alot more trouble down the road with bf relationships.
2006-08-20 06:38:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend and tell them. Is the person a girl or boy i am confused
2006-08-21 04:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by xclusive_4x_u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um r u jelous of ur friend cause it seems like it. just go find u a new friend
2006-08-20 06:37:49 · answer #5 · answered by ♥la chica♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think what she is saying is boyfriend friend is a she...if not she needs a lot more and counselling.
2006-08-20 06:37:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think there is no a problem ,, she can love both of you ...
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2006-08-20 06:39:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
best friend forever? or boy friend? um... well anyway... juss tak to ur friend.. & tell her..
2006-08-20 06:38:47 · answer #8 · answered by Sexy Pookie ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend...is a "she"?
2006-08-20 06:35:23 · answer #9 · answered by ♫Pavic♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋