I am a good christian liberal so I often invite people who are down on their luck to stay with me until they get back on their feet. I currently have several homeless men with drug addictions staying in my basement. I suspect one of them is having an affair with my wife because I always catch them holding each other. They say that they are wrestling or practicing CPR but I don't believe it anymore. My wife also gives this man a lot more money then we usually give to the homeless, much more then I can afford. What should I do, I am so confused!
2006-08-20 06:25:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
First of all, get rid of the bums. Their problems are not your own. You make more problems for yourself by trying to fix everyone else. You can't. Next, get rid of the wife. If she is doing the bums in the basement, she's probably doing your friends, neighbors and the gardener, too. Lastly and most importantly, become a republican. Liberalism creates more problems than it solves.
2006-08-20 21:25:20 · answer #1 · answered by lain_xiii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him out of the house in front of ur wife,ask her if she wants to go with him...she will probably say 'are u insane,I have nothing 2 do with him'
Accept that and be cold with her and a bit sarcastic,if u can find solid proof of their affair that would help;it doesn't pay to ruin ur marriage,if u love her,forgive but do not forget...she has to know she did wrong .
One way u can find is from the homeless guys buddies,they can be convinced to give u info,and even spy .
If you don't like to put your foot in the ground,then don't do nothin' just wait for them to leave,and people talk behind ur back.
Ahh P.S. and make sure anything u do stays in the house,you don't need more people finding out.
I one am a good Samaritan and often got the sour taste cause people think otherwise . Don't let this get u down,being a good person,a helping and caring human being is all that counts in this world.
2006-08-20 06:36:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grown up people do not wrestle or practice CPR. Unless they are in a class for these things. Unless you are a homeless shelter get those people out of your basement. You have created a dangerous place for your family. Your wife as you already know has behaved badly. Another reason for getting these people out of your home. There are agencies set up to help the homeless. Let them do their job.
2006-08-20 06:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by papricka w 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look God do not give us the spirit of confusion!
Listen I feel for you because lots of time we like to do things without talking to GOD FIRST. Its alright to help but you must first bring it to GOD because the bible tells us that there are wolves dress in sheep clothing. In other words the devil come in many shapes and with out the knowlege of God we let him in and in your case you let him into your home, when there are other places you could have sent him or them to such as a drug program or point them to the nearest shelter and in the furture never invite people to stay in your home with you and your family.Now if you really think that your wife is having an affair with this person you confront her with issue and even if she is or not put all of them out and let them find them selves a shelter or some where else to go. If they can go out to find drugs then they can find them a place to stay.Now after you have put them all out if your wife disagree then you tell her that you love her but you don't want to share your home anymore in that way and that you and her need to find another way to be a help to the homeless and if she still disagree then it must be some truth to what you believe is going on with her and this person. Look this may be hard.Open the door and tell her she can go to.God bless you
2006-08-20 07:04:12 · answer #4 · answered by jenningshorace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 19:56:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey albertdarcosmo,
Sorry for the situation. I guess no good deed goes unpunished.
You need to confront your wife with your suspicions. Watch her eyes and facial expressions when you pop the question. You probably should ask the homless romeo to leave also.
Confront the situation. Don't allow it to continue.
2006-08-20 06:31:11 · answer #6 · answered by BuyTheSeaProperty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Inviting strange drug-addicted men to live with you and your wife is putting both your lives in danger. You should stop this immediately. Charity is well and good--you're practicing stupidity.
2006-08-20 06:32:34 · answer #7 · answered by T. B. the Wise 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i'd turn her into a homeless person also but not give her a place to stay either.
2006-08-20 06:39:07 · answer #8 · answered by duc602 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You would have done OK
writing COMEDY for Benny Hill.......
Otherwise MURPHY'S LAW applies
"A good DEED shall not go UNPUNISHED"
2006-08-20 06:36:37 · answer #9 · answered by Moonlite gambler 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let it go.
Liberals enjoy doing the wrong things for the wrong reasons. That's what you get. That's why NORMAL people don't do that!
2006-08-20 06:32:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋