im 15 I just feel ugly, my bf tells me am not, and shuff. When i was 12 or 13 Ppl in my school but know im in high school. i still feel ugly and one of guy that call me ugly ask me out, I said No you made fun of me and ****, other ppl that i know just look at me, and new ppl are alway hugging me (it kinda annoying lol)some told me I was hot, But when some one call me hot I think they are being nice, and when they leave they laught well that what I think...
pic of me
http://i8.photobucket.com/albums/a39/xlilcutie2x/OMg.jpg
http://i8.photobucket.com/albums/a39/xlilcutie2x/1063562280_m.jpg
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Sorry I was kinda crying in this pic lol
http://i8.photobucket.com/albums/a39/xlilcutie2x/1035626556_m.jpg
Smile, Sorry i move the cam alot
2006-08-20 05:50:53 · 50 answers · asked by AloneFur 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
no i think you are really pretty
i love your hair.
2006-08-20 05:55:26 · answer #1 · answered by Hailey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not I, who can convince you of that, but to help you enhance your self-esteem for your outside shell, your prettiness is on a high scale, enough, that many others, would want to have been born with. You have stated you've been this negative low esteem for the last few years, and perhaps it should be further investigated by a professional therapist, who could help you, to help yourself. You have a lot of opportunity to turn your way of thinking into a more positive attitude. Only you can decide to take the steps, and do the work involved to succeed. If you want to change your negativity about yourself, like a song says, I've heard somewhere...don't know the artist but says along that line If you want to change, change your thinking. However, some need help with that, because it can be complicated, that's why there are professionals out there and licenced. Therefore, while or if I have your attention...the best suggestion I can make to you is ask your parent/s to make an appointment for you for a check up, and bring your concerns to the doctor. Ask the physician, for a referrel to a professional thereapist who may be able to help you and/or your anxieties. Don't beat yourself up over it, do something about it! Allow your inner-self opportunity for growth, and as you work through all your issues, you will see yourself radiate from the inside out. There's nothing like it, you will probably ask yourself, why you put if off for so long, and discover a whole lot more about you, that you never even imagined. The world awaits your new you, and all your inner beauty you have to offer. You are a special person, and very needed, by many of the less fortunate, and it takes a lot of courage to share what you did...don't quit now! Be good to yourself, and smile, you have met someone who may have helped you solve a struggle you have in for these few years :-) well, at least I hope I have helped a little bit somewhere, I can't take a lot of credit, because everyone here who responded to your question cares...and really wants to help stop those tears you've been crying, they are very special people...so smile...sweetie, you are not alone :-) Have a great day!
2006-08-20 06:29:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahahah crying....Do you have a pic of you having a nervous breakdown too? I really love those.
Anyway, before you cry anymore, I was expecting the worse when you showed me the pictures. You look easily above average. Get some less blurry pictures though. Count wat you have as a blessing. There are plenty of people fat, deformed, and plain ugly. You may have a emotional issue similar to anorexics. You think you are fat, but you are really skinny.
Regardless of, life is so much more than looks. Thank god. Sure I won't likely date ugly people(natural instinct), but that doesn't mean I can't be their best friend, go out, laugh together. It doesn't mean they can't be beautiful people and be really happy. It doesn't mean they can't discover/invent things or do great charity work. They can be far happier people than supermodels...happier than me or you. Human beings are amazing and they have so many ways to make what they have work. There is amazing potential in each one. And if you believe so, looks are just 1% of your total value. What do you think about most of the time? Do you look at fashion magazines or TV stars? What do you value? What else can you value?
2006-08-20 06:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by Ilooklikemyavatar..exactly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u look GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOODD!!!!! and do not be with someone that called u ugly. I on the other hand, have been called that many many times. Besides, u ewre born that way, so u r beautiful. In know, sounds sappy, but true!!! anyway, love the hair. lol. Besides, do not go out wihth a guy that called u ugly. He will make u think u can not do any better.
Anyway, have a nice day.
2006-08-20 05:59:44 · answer #4 · answered by coolcat123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are ugly, but I think the way you feel inside is showing on your face. If you're not happy inside, you won't look happy outside and that is just what your pictures show. This answer is not intended to be insulting. Smile when you take pictures. Laugh more. Again, you are not ugly.
2006-08-20 05:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by NGE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you ask total strangers whether you are ugly?
honestly, hon, no one in this world is ugly, nor is anyone perfect.
beauty comes from how you play up what's gorgeous about YOU. if you feel good about yourself, you will be beautiful. i do not mean this in a soppy "inner beauty" way- if you are talking about outward beauty (which i assume you are), you gotta feel good! choose clothes that compliment you, try fun hair styles, and just be positive. every girl is gorgeous- including you, and you know it! if you think you are depressed, why don't you talk to your doctor about it? (im not saying you are, but it DoEs sound like you got some self-esteem probs)
ps. i did not look at your pictures (i didn't need to),
- later dayz ! ;)
2006-08-20 06:19:43 · answer #6 · answered by bdazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A. take better pictures of yourself.
B. Dont go so heavy on ure eye makeup ull look like a witch.
Your actually not ugly.
Get so confidnece.
Yor bf is rite.
2006-08-20 06:29:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you think your UGLY? Oh my god sweety you are a beautiful girl (now the eyeliner does make you look a little to Gothic, especially for someone as pretty as you that doesn't need that crap so thick) Try toning down the eyeliner a bit and let your INNER beauty SHINE!!!
2006-08-20 06:05:55 · answer #8 · answered by Angel B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you posting random pics of yourself for strangers to see and judge you? If we said all that you wanted to hear would you believe us? If your boyfriend, someone you know and care, for says you are and you don't believe him why are you going to believe us? Ultimately beauty isn't defined by looks and the sooner you know that the better (and more beautiful) you can and will be. Untill you get that, what people say wont make a difference
2006-08-20 05:58:50 · answer #9 · answered by bananapancakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be mean but no matter how beautiful you are outside if you feel ugly then you are never going to be happy with yourself and to be truly beautiful you have to learn to accept the way you are first so you can see yourself and know wether or not you need to try to change. i have to say you obviously have people that like you so cheer up and be proud of who you are.
2006-08-20 05:59:21 · answer #10 · answered by twistedlifesmysteries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really shouldn't have to be asking people if you're ugly. That's downgrading yourself. I don't know you but that's strange for you to ask us that and put pictures up of you. Are you a depressed person always feeling like no one likes you? That's not good.
2006-08-20 05:57:03 · answer #11 · answered by MariLin♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋