My friend is 13 and acts really fast and stuff.Shes does things with my friends brother and takes it as just fun when she could have a STD or anything.She also told me about how her moms boyfriend thought she was fine and stuff but she dosen't want to tell her mom.She also likes to brag about how all these differnet boys like her and check her out and stuff.Shje also acts realllllllllllllllly spoiled.Does anybody have any advice for me?
2006-08-20 05:48:56 · 30 answers · asked by Princess Jr. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dont act like her. if it makes you crazy you can always stop talking to her as much. sometimes people dont realize the things they do get on other peoples nerves, especially their friends.
2006-08-20 05:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by michelle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your friend is really going to flush her life down the toilet. She's either going to have a kid at a very young age, get herself raped, or end up in an abusive relationship, or runaway with an old guy. I don't think there's anything you can really do. Sounds like her mom is a loser for dating a man that thinks a 13 year old is hot, so that'll be like talking to a brick wall. If you're friend wants to be a young hoochie, then I would suggest to you that you remove yourself from that situation and find yourself a new friend. Also, don't imitate her actions because she is acting like a foolish dumba*s. She will never have someone that really loves her because they are all using her for sex. Yeah, when it comes down to it, find yourself a new friend, definately.
2006-08-20 05:56:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a strange friend. Don't hang out with her-she's got a bad influence on you and she's too dumb to know that what she's doing is bad. It may be hard finding a better friend, because maybe when this friend isn't being stupid she is a good person-but who cares. You need a friend who will have a good influence on you and won't try to act better than everybody else. It's sad to know that she will have to learn from her mistakes the hard way.
2006-08-20 05:56:14 · answer #3 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl is trouble. Oh, I'm sure she's fun to be with, and may be nothing more than a big tease, but eventually it'll lead to trouble. As difficult as it may be, a girl should be a lady. Don't ever give yourself up to any guy just for the fun of it.. And don't give the guys a reason to think you're an easy score. If you let them think it, eventually it will happen.
2006-08-20 05:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, everyone so far is acting jerky and not helping, dont listen to them. 13 is a pretty young age to be doing things like that. Tell her how you feel, tell her that your worried about her. And you dont like how she is acting. She might be a little upset at first, but she will think about it and realize it isnt the smartest thing to be doing. Maybe she should go talk with a doctor, because just talking to her mothers boyfriend probably wont be enough. Because he isnt a doctor. She is probably really excited about all the new things happening that havent happened before. Just explain to her what you have explained to us. Goodluck! hope i helped.
2006-08-20 05:57:47 · answer #5 · answered by Alexandra S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's trouble on 2 feet and needs help to figure out why she is so out of control and needs that sort of approval from males who are USING HER for their own gratification.
If her mom's boyfriend thinks she's "fine and stuff", then he is a pervert and her mom should be told. If her mom doesn't do anything, then someone needs to step in and help this girl. She is headed one way down a dead end street.
2006-08-20 05:54:45 · answer #6 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a former hot thang and a lady who had fast friends.you can warn her,yell at her,cry for her, and child she still is going to do her thing. she will learn that life is no joke and there is more to being fine you have to wear wisdom like you do perfume. she could be experimenting with her sexuality and her affect on men she is feeling herself right now. you keep a good head on yiur shoulders you seem like a wise chick stay that way.work on being the best young diva you know how to be. wish your friend well thats all you can do.
2006-08-20 05:59:26 · answer #7 · answered by rasheda c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find better friends because at some point they could influence you in a bad way, or get you into a situation with others that you cannot safely get out of. You need to take care of you, and if you can, discuss this with your mom.
2006-08-20 05:53:41 · answer #8 · answered by gone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i might say he's into you, and this pastime and the thinest merchandise between your lips is his way of experiencing the closest he might get to kissing you for now.. yet because of the fact you have a boyfriend there is at present no greater desirable than friendship on the horizon.. Now it relies upon on what you % to do with this, do you like him in a manner of greater desirable than in basic terms friends? Or this would possibly no longer count, cos you're probly pleased with your boyfriend?
2016-10-02 08:01:56 · answer #9 · answered by merisier 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to tell young girls the right way to go and give them good advice, all you can do is try to give her good advice, and pray for her, because if she keeps on doing what she is doing, she is going to end up pregnant, std, or even worse dead somewhere. She has to be willing to listen and change all you can do is give the advice
2006-08-20 05:54:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smack the **** out of her and leave her alone. She only 13yrs old and already a hoe, that is sad. Tell her mom that she having semi-intercourse with these boys and if she doesn't do anything then call child protective services.
2006-08-20 05:55:02 · answer #11 · answered by chocolateheaven84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋