THE OTHER DAY ONE OF MY GIRLFRIEND GOES TO THIS FUNERAL WITH HER HUSBAND ( HIS FRIEND WAS KILLED) SHE DROPS HIM OFF AT THE WAKE AND MAKES A RUN TO PICK UP HER BROTHER, WHEN THEY RETURN TO THE CHURCH, THE FUNERAL HAS ALREADY STARTED AND THE CHURCH WAS PACK SO SHE AND HER BROTHER ARE SITTED TO THE LEFT OF THE CHURCH BECAUSE THAT'S WHERE THE FEW SITS LEFT ARE. ANYWAY, SHE SAID THAT SHE IS LOOKING FOR HER HUSBAND IN THE CROWD AND CAN'T FIND HIM, THE PREACHER TELL THE CROWD TO STAND AND AT THIS POINT, SHE SPOTS HIM. SHE LOOKS TO HIS LEFT, AND THERE HE IS SITTING NEXT TO HIS EX WIFE AND HER GIRLFRIEND. HE IS SITTING WITH ALL HIS BOYS. HE KNOWS THAT HIS WIFE DOESN'T LIKE THE EX AND HE CLAIMS THAT THE USHER EXCORTED HER IN RIGHT NEXT TO HIM. MIND YOU SHE SAID THAT THE CHURCH HAS OVER 500 SITS AND SHE AND HER BROTHER BARELY EVEN GOT ONE AND THEY ARRIVED SUPPOSELY BEFORE THE EX. SHE SAID THAT WHEN SHE SAW THEM SITTING THERE, SHE DAMN NEAR FAINTED BECAUSE SHE WAS THAT PISSED OFF. SHE SAID SHE TEXTED HIS *** AND TOLD HIM THAT HE HAD BETTER MOVE HIS *** RIGHT THEN AND THERE. WHO WAS WRONG AND WHY?
2006-08-20 05:42:42 · 17 answers · asked by just wondering 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She was wrong. This is a funeral. It's not like they were sitting together at a bar having drinks. You also said he was sitting by his boys. I assume this means they have kids together. The new girlfriend needs to grow up and realize that this lady will always be a part of this mans life. If she can't handle it, then she needs to get out now!
2006-08-20 05:49:45 · answer #1 · answered by dolphin2253 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She was wrong. His friend died.....it is a wake....he wasn't sitting there chatting and having drinks with her, he was sitting there during a funeral, most likely mourning the loss of his friend. Her texting him was VERY classless. You don't just get up and find a new seat during a funeral! Time for her to grow up and trust her husband!!! She was there the whole time for the wake, so whatever happened happened right in front of her! And if "his boys" referred to his children, he has every right to sit with them, and who cares if she doesn't like the ex. If they have kids together she better get used to the idea that she will always be a part of his life, like it or not.
2006-08-20 12:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there were a few mistakes made! the Usher just show them in. He has no control over who's sitting next to him. The ex's should have moved their butts,if they knew he was married. And I think your friend did the right thing,lol
2006-08-20 13:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The wife was totally in the wrong, first off i would never text my husband a nasty message like that, i don't care who he was sitting with. Secondly, i would hope out of respect for me he wouldn't be sitting with someone he knew i wouldn't want him next to in the first place and instead would be saving me a seat. But your question was "who was wrong" and in the interest of avoiding a fight, the wife was wrong, she shouldnt be texing such a nasty disrespectful message to her husband. Could the husband have sat elsewhere, yes of course, does it make it okay for the wife to then act like a spoiled jerk, NO, and we wonder why so many marriages are in jepordary these days. Mutual respect folks!
2006-08-20 12:53:24 · answer #4 · answered by tink3610 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the girlfriend was wrong!! it was a funeral and the ex knew this person and apparently the girlfriend didn't think that it was important enough to stay with him the whole time that she had to leave.. if it was my boyfriend, i would be standing by his side the whole time and someone else could go and pick up her brother... the husband needed her and she wasn't there.. her fault!! it was very immature of her to tell him he needed to move... she should have never left!! sorry but my opinion!!!
2006-08-20 12:51:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the love of God, it was a funeral and why didnt she pick up her brother on the way before she dropped off her husband. She needs to grow up a little.
2006-08-20 12:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was in the wrong. When the usher approached him to be seated, he should of spoken up and said, "No thank you, I am waiting for my wife and I will sit with her." Then he should of waited for her. As for his wife texting him, he better learn real quick not to do things like that and he made an *** of himself.
2006-08-20 12:56:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on girl. For one thing your just rambling on over something that is so petty. Grow up and move on. Your at a funeral and please show some respect. Is it necessary to think about ex boyfriends and ex lovers ex husbands all the time?
Who really cares?
2006-08-20 12:52:53 · answer #8 · answered by MARK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry the wife is wrong. It is a funeral and having your children with youe eases the pain and so he sat next to his ex. Let's say it together ex-wife and wife.
2006-08-20 12:51:59 · answer #9 · answered by rjsr40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was wrong, it was a funeral not something enjoyable. He was sitting with his children. Your friend needs to work on not being as insecure.
2006-08-20 12:55:10 · answer #10 · answered by Stacy B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋