I love my husband so very much but i don't like his relationship with his family he has two sisters and calls them his love, and tells them what to dress and what they look good in and he wont even tell me if my dress looks good on me, he takes them shopping buy them what ever they want and wont buy me a dame candy!
( is that normal) he has a niece and i think he loves her more then his baby , and his mom i just cant stand her she tells him shes drinks and that she finds no sense in life since he got married (hello) and plus they dont care about me they didnt even say happy bday on my day they dont say hello to me and when i answer the phone the just ask about there son and tell me why i took him away! i dont know if i am wrong i just need some help on how to deal with this and also to make my husband understand that he has his own family to love and worry about and give money to(cause he sends half his money to them) and i dont think thats fair or am i wrong???
Please help!!!
2006-08-20 05:32:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
time to get rid of this man as he has a seriously unnatural fixation on his family
2006-08-20 05:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by scarlet_bat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not normal for him to be like that with his sisters and niece. Of course he will love them a lot, but his comments and actions sound more incestual to me. Not that that is the case, but that's what comes to mind. He does need to realize that once you get married, your wife and children become your family. Your parents/siblings/nieces/nephews/etc become secondary. Why is he sending them half of his money?! That's ridiculous. Is he not American? I'm thinking he's middle eastern or something by what you've said. I really don't know what to tell you on how to solve it, but good luck!
2006-08-20 13:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A real husband loves his wife more than anyone, then his children. Then, his family and friends. I hate to say it, but, IF he treats the female family members way more attentively than the male family members, I'd worry very much. Unless he is RICH, his own family should should be supported, not his sisters, nieces, mother, or anybody else.
2006-08-20 12:54:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your husband and his family. But the smartest answer to this question would be to get a divorce. Think about it, do you want to deal with this for the rest of your life? But first talk with the family and your husband. And a bit of counseling would do you some good.
2006-08-20 12:41:00 · answer #4 · answered by ChaiTea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should try to talk to him and say spend time with are baby and go places with us and forget about those people and if that dosent work the i would get rid of him hope i helped u
2006-08-20 12:43:45 · answer #5 · answered by cedes357 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not wrong. Your husband has got his priorities all wrong. He is married to his family not to you. I feel sorry for you. I don't think you can change him or his family. You can change yourself.......accept him and his family or move on.
2006-08-20 12:43:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i m so sorry to read this, but in the 1st place y did ur hubby marry u?? u need to seriously sit down with him n talk abt this..or send him for proper counselling..
2006-08-20 12:40:03 · answer #7 · answered by devangel1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, OH, incest, maybe ? This really isent "normal", I certainly would look into this situation more. Maybe, its time to get yourself out of this unnatural situation!!
2006-08-20 12:54:12 · answer #8 · answered by yvonne p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to run away from this relationship, as far away as you can.
2006-08-20 12:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by kimberly k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋