My husband thihnks I'm here cheating on him and I just don't know how to get it thru his head that I'm not. Hes already cheated on me once, and thinks I'm going to get him back, but I have no desire to. I don't understand men, I don't think I ever will. Help..
2006-08-20 05:20:07 · 8 answers · asked by mnhmoore 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is insecure because of his own unfaithfulness and has a guilty conscience.
He should feel blessed that you didn't kick him to the curb for cheating on him.
2006-08-20 05:26:04 · answer #1 · answered by bonjovigroupie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Did he hear this from anyone else? Or how did he come to this conclusion? Just because he cheated on you once? All you can do is reassure him. Also, if he has already cheated on you, i'd be really careful, because he will most likely do it again, especially if he thinks you are cheating. He could be blaming you because he is cheating and wants a reason for it. He is in a stressful situation and that could also be it, but my husband was in iraq and is now in Japan, and has never once accused me. He felt insecure I might find a better person, but never thought I would cheat.
2006-08-20 06:01:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's not much you can do, except what you already are. Just keep telling him that you have no desire to cheat on him, even though you're hurt that he didn't feel the same way about you. He's probably feeling insecure, because he knows he did wrong. He's wondering how can he trust you, when he can't even trust himself. Just keep being a good wife. If he's meant to, he'll come around eventually.
2006-08-20 05:27:59 · answer #3 · answered by rocknrobin21 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him that just because he was weak and made a mistake doesn't mean that you will. Tell him to stop worring and to trust you. If you are going to cheat there isn't anything that he can do about it so tell him to drop it.
2006-08-20 05:26:26 · answer #4 · answered by angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is just trying to clear hi own cheating buy thinking u are. bet ur well fit he must bee made
2006-08-20 05:27:24 · answer #5 · answered by ringer6942 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that he shouldn't judge you. Just because he would do that to you,doesn't mean that you are doing it to him. Man will do this because they think you would do what they would do. I don't know to ease his mind.
2006-08-20 05:36:11 · answer #6 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he really thinks that ,, and already he did that before ,,
don`t hear to him and tell me that i not do what you did,,
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2006-08-20 06:19:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is he a terrorist?
2006-08-20 05:27:59 · answer #8 · answered by patrick w 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋