i used to have a friend who currently cant get enough of trying to ruin my friendship with others. my bf asked me to ignore, and i think im going to do the same.but im afraid this liar will try to tarnish my reputation!!
2006-08-20 05:16:56 · 22 answers · asked by heartyhoney 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your boyfriend is right. This person wants to get a rise out of you in addition to trashing you out. Don't give her the satisfaction.
2006-08-20 05:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you ignor it and don't rise to the bait then ppl will realise she is the one with the problem and you are the mature one who doesn't care what she thinks. Also when ppl get to know you they will find you are a lovely person and the other girl was wrong about you. If others believe the rumours then who cares b/c they aren't your friends and even if they were they wouldn't be very good ones. Follow your b/f's advice. Good Luck!
2006-08-20 05:40:06 · answer #2 · answered by EvieEvans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does hurt that a friend u trusted would betray u this way - by tarnishin ur reputation - but its worth it - if U can ignore her - Go on with ur life - she will soon realise what she is doing and stop when others see that u r not reacting to what she / he is saying.
2006-08-20 05:24:16 · answer #3 · answered by Alethia A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sorta experience like eating choc chip cookies with Milk like in Christmas. As for your answer, i imagine you shouldn't have kept the secret. i might want to've gave you a much more beneficial effective answer yet because you 'spilt the beans' and act stressful I received't. i'm right here for the factors to ask more beneficial questions!
2016-11-05 05:44:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, dump her like the trash they are! That is exactly what you call a back stabber! I know you're smart enough to know that ain't a real friend! & if she does ruin ur reputation, this is wha you do: save some bail money & whip that *****'s ***!
2006-08-20 05:22:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your conscious are clear, you need not worry. Constantly pray and be nice to people whom aren't nice to you. It jus get on their nerves. Liars have low self-esteem. Be sad for them cos a person whom lie will not be able to trust others nor themselves.
2006-08-20 05:23:28 · answer #6 · answered by sdks_19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off take your bf's idea and quit worrying what other people think of you. Your close friends wont believe it any way and your bf doesn't care so let that jerk blow their load on their time and don't worry about it
2006-08-20 05:22:08 · answer #7 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if possible talk to her and ask what is her problem why she is doing that, if that didn't work ignore her if that didn't work either you should do the same to give her a lesson.
2006-08-20 05:25:04 · answer #8 · answered by tara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant control what others do,only how you react to them. In the grand scheme of things it doesn't matter what they say.
And, they aren't a "friend" if they would do that to you.
2006-08-20 05:23:02 · answer #9 · answered by ladybug.leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats really sad. If anyone asks you about lies that have been told you can say Too bad she finds it necessary to lie about people. I have better things to do".
2006-08-20 05:22:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋