my husband complains that my clitoris looks like a penis, should i leave him?

Question

i can not help that i have long labia minora and a large clitoris. why does he act that way? it never bothered him before.

Answer 1

anyone that loves and care about you should never hurt your feeling like that, You were born that way...your special. If he does'nt like the way you where born, he may have issuse of his own that are making him behave this way. Good luck sweetie

Answer 2

Although you don't give any specifics as to size or appearance I would think that leaving him would be a bit extreme . I think that you should try to talk it out first . That is not something that a couple should fight over . It does seem a little odd to argue over something like that . I think that I would find it rather arousing , But then again , I have always thought that a woman's body was a beautiful thing . I enjoy looking closely at every fold and wrinkle and every detail of the female body , I understand that some women are not impressed at the appearance of their own genital area. They should not be bothered by that at all , since most of us men find this area particularly beautiful and fascinating . I would suggest that you two talk it out and remind him that this is just the way you were made , and that it is something that you can't change , and should not be expected to change . Good Luck with this matter . Feel free to ask me for any other advice or pointers .

He is a lucky guy , and needs to be reminded of this .

Answer 3

There is nothing wrong with your clitoris. The nerve endings there are very similar to the nerve endings in the penis - therefore it is like a little penis. Just like there are small and large penis you happen to have a large clitorus and labia minora. He could be more sensitive in telling you that. Some people find such anatomy very attractive. Educate him if he doesn't understand that it is a sensitive issue do what you must.

Answer 4

The clitoris does look a little bit like a penis. It is after all developed from the same tissue and has the same nerve supply as the penis does. However, the fact that your husband has suddenly started complaining about any part of your body is the real problem. I would try to find out what is really causing him to be ugly to you. If he will not try to work it out. Then yes trade him in for somebody who loves you. I think every part of my wife;s body is beautiful. That is part of loving her. Try talking first but if that does not work he is not good enough for you.

Answer 5

Well I am sure that hurts your feeling. All women clitoris looks different but if he makes you feel bad all the time then you need to think about that because your self- esteem could really really get low from saying things like that. Did he see it before you got married or he never seen it until after you were marred? because that could be very important. Again. Did he see it before you were married?

Answer 6

Boys and girls parts are much the same in the womb in the early months. Jamie Lee Curtis came out a few years back as being a partial hermaphrodite(yes, she has a fully functional vagina, and a little winkie!) We all develop differently. Hopefully your abilities to satisfy him will outweigh any phobias he has about you being anything but the lovely woman I'm sure you are.

Answer 7

Leaving him might be a little drastic at first. Talk to him about it. If that doesn't work, you can try counseling. It is strange that he's acting like this if it's never bothered him before. Maybe he just wants attention.

Answer 8

Its actually good for him and you. He can easily satisfy you and you can easily get satisfied.

But clitoris projecting like 6 inch penis is quite odd???

Answer 9

I think he is nuts . That is the most exciting part of a women's body . I love to just look and admire my wife's clit .
It sounds like you are beautiful in this area .
He is lucky and does not have a clue about beauty .
You just pay no mind to his remarks he does not know beauty .
ronnyD

Answer 10

Jamie Lee Curtis Clit