okay i need help. im 18 and i have a son.
his name is Jaxon James. and hes my life.
hes 8 months old. and i am now currently pregnant.
i would love to have another child. it has been such a wonderful experience for me. but my boyfriend said were not financially stable enough. my son jaxon is SPOILED! but he said 2 kids would be to much. i told him he shouldnt have been so irresponsible IF HE DIDNT WANT TO HAVE ANOTHER CHILD. he told me he would leave me if i chose to have it. so what do i do? have an abortion? i dont think i could emotionally manage that...
2006-08-20 03:55:06 · 4 answers · asked by jill_emerson120405 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
if you dont want to have an abortion, then dont have one. Nobody (not even your boyfriend) has the right to tell you to have an abortion as you are right, having an abortion is very hard to cope with emotionally, especially if you were pressured into having one.
Having a child is both parents responsibilty...good luck anyway
xx
2006-08-20 04:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by life sucks at times 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what is best for you, you are the one who has to live with making a decision that was forced on you. Good Luck. Keep in mind...you are still young and giving up the baby for this man doesnt ensure that he will stay around.
2006-08-20 11:04:10 · answer #2 · answered by tammilynn05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you keep it your gonna make your boy friend go crazy and probaly commit suicide. especially if your not financially stable, the best thing to do is to get an abortion.
2006-08-20 11:20:25 · answer #3 · answered by Lance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my daughters dad said this to me when i was pregnant and i had her, he can't really love you or he wouldn't put you in this situation, at least your child will love you no matter what
2006-08-20 11:02:59 · answer #4 · answered by nursej 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋