Help me out because this is killing me
i have been trying meeting other girls it dont work
i stop doing hand jobs because always i think about this girl
it is like a ghosts always there
while i am down she is having fun is so unfair she lies to me about who she is and now she becomes a hell in my brain
2006-08-20 03:18:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I'm very interested in this answer myself. I was hurt beyond belief by my husband of 13 years, and although I have moved out, it is so hard to move on. So far, I am trying to keep busy, and learn to love myself. We were one, and when he broke my heart, he took part of me with it. I must learn to be a whole on my own, in order to ever be whole with someone else. Good luck!
2006-08-25 10:48:29 · answer #1 · answered by kbear1274 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obsessing about this girl. You need to find other things to take your mind off of her. I know, I know.... easier said than done... but you have to in order to maintain your own sanity.
Obsessing can be dangerous. We all have people in our lives that we have loved deeply and then moved on. If they had a significant impact on us, then we always will carry a little piece of them in our hearts and minds.
Stop worrying about what she is, or isn't doing. Go pick up an extremely difficult jig-saw puzzle, buy a book that will pique and hold your interest, go get a detailed paint by number kit. Do something that will distract you so that you have some emotional healing time.
Splitting up hurts terribly at first, but I promise, with time, the hurt does start to fade.
2006-08-20 03:35:54 · answer #2 · answered by diane_b_33594 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe by only thinking about her you avoid thinking about other things in your life that trouble you. It's not like you've lost a brilliant person that treated you with great care or that loved you. You've lost someone who lied to you and doesn't give a damn what happens to you. So In a way, you have lost nothing, but gained the freedom to move on. However, if there are obstacles in your way which keep you from moving on and you don't know how to resolve them, maybe you're just using this girl to avoid confrontation with your other problems and stay passive. I don't mean to criticize you by the way, but I've seen it happen before.
2006-08-20 03:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by chocolatebunny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wake up there are many other men on this planet who would die for you... If he is happy without you, you too should laugh on that fool who lost an angel lyk u. Nothing is permanent in this world, so we all have to cope up with our situations. Concentrate on your career. Read bible/spiritual books.. Make a visit to church twice a week. Go voulenteer in some orphange for atleast once a week. In short dedicate yourself to well being of humanity and you will surely stay happy.. Next time before falling for someone else check if he is good or not. If he keeps promises. Respects you a lot and above all treats others below him in status with due respect, then go for him.... All the best and aal is well
2016-03-17 00:14:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wish I knew the answer, its been 7 months now since my soul-mate left with another. However, she still comes over about twice a month to keep me under her thumb, and sexually satisfied enough that I don't date others. I love her so much, I go along with it, cause of the hope of reunite. She likes it, cause its more action, plus I'm a good backup, once the new boy-toy starts to loose his luster.
2006-08-20 03:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by AqVpA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey have u heard " TIME IS THE GREATEST HEALER"
U will probably feel this way for a while and then ur life WILL return to a routine. You may never forget her completely but you will manage to go on without her.
Its like a mirror.. Once broken, u could stick it back but the crack is always there. Similarly u will have her somewher in ur mind forever but u will go on with life.
2006-08-20 03:27:08 · answer #6 · answered by lovelylongrana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've made up a dream life that you thought was to be.If she was the one then you'd be together.Dont waste any more of your life wandering what could have been ,you'd probably be living in hell.Find you someone that will love you back.TRY harder.
2006-08-25 17:27:53 · answer #7 · answered by mustang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey partner, your going about this wrong. it's not about forgetting her, it's about forgiving yourself. Listen don't be a dog barking up the wrong tree. There are over 2 billion women on this planet, don't get stuck on one that isn't for you.
2006-08-20 03:27:22 · answer #8 · answered by derek4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never want to forget the guy i loved the most even i never have him, coz i love him.
i think maybe u should talk to her, why she's lying about who she is and what for then u should decided if she is a bad girl that u must forget or she is a good girl that worth for ur love.
if she is worth for ur love and she's happy now and u really love her then u should be happy for her...
2006-08-20 03:34:43 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this sounds kinda weird? you should try working out? It was something that help me take out my agression etc. while in other ways getting noticed . Ya know what I'm saying? Sure the girl will always b in ur brain,
The pain will eventually lesson enough to move on? B Strong
2006-08-20 03:29:15 · answer #10 · answered by J.M. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋