i have a problem talking to girls
2006-08-20 03:02:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
TRY TO OBSERVE MANY GIRLS(dont constantly stare at them,okay)
I MEAN THEIR BODY LANGUAGE
FOR TALKING TO GIRLS YOU GOTTA THINK LIKE THEM ,i mean not always.
GIRLS LIKE SHY GUYS LIKE YOU ,I AM TELLING YOU!!!!!!!
2006-08-20 03:23:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is easy to talk too girls. Just be yourself and don't try all those lame pick up lines that men do. I have found that if you just start up a conversation with a woman about things in life. Say you are at a club, just go over and ask her what she thinks of the music just to start a conversation and then just go from there. It is important that you listen to what she has to say so that you can find out all you can about what she likes and then just start talking about those things. Don't make the conversation all one sided about yourself. Once you do this a few times your fears of talking to girls will go away and you can relax and be yourself.
2006-08-20 10:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act normal make some smal talk hi im ..... whatch you doin this weekend ifs shes not doin anything ask would you like to go to the movies or dinner with you a girl is still a human shes just pretty nothing to be afriad of
2006-08-20 10:11:00 · answer #3 · answered by mikemaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because you have a need and are looking for something from them and afraid of rejection. To the extent that you can be genuine, the more confident you'll become.
However, the best thing is just to go up and start talking.
2006-08-20 10:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch the movie Hitch. Don't worry so much about what they think or whatever. You want them to like you but just act natural. You don't have to be some macho *** crack be polite and when they talk let them know that you UNDERSTAND what they are talking about and respond as you are listening and understanding what they are saying! Good luck.
2006-08-20 10:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by Beano4aReason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So did I...then I learned magic. (The card trick kind)
After that, I always had something to say...and...when I got better at magic (BOY does it take practice) the girls would come to me to see a trick.
Because of magic, I went from being a shy, quiet boy to a public speaker.
How do you start? The library has many books and your local magic shop is always ready to help!
2006-08-20 10:09:43 · answer #6 · answered by Grundoon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk the same way your talking to us,just out loud and don't be vulgar or swear.They'll talk back.
2006-08-20 10:08:37 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is an easy answer, relax take a deep breath and be yourself. girls tend to be more relaxed and open if they feel that ur able to relax around them also.
2006-08-20 10:09:09 · answer #8 · answered by mark d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is my favorite pick up line,
This smell like chloroform to you?
or
Is it alright if I sit by you till its clear where I farted?
good stuff
2006-08-20 10:07:49 · answer #9 · answered by midtownhazard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. If she doesn't like you, too bad for her. You'll find someone who does want to talk to you.
2006-08-20 10:07:40 · answer #10 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋