after seeing a gal in common class from other dept. talking with a guy from same dept. i realized she has some catching character which has scratched my thinking pad. on next day i send a friend request to her on orkut with some proactive scrap that i have not written before. one day after without a reason, she simply rejected my request which left in question why i become so proactive, what is in her character?
then after 3 days, today i found the answer : i have written a story during my bachelor days where i described a pretty, agile gal provocatively talking with a outsider guy in a secured township, i dream to design. so its like my creation has come to alive! on this scenario i have found the question i set here. please try to answer.
2006-08-20 03:01:11 · 12 answers · asked by sarit 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I don't think we can say every one. However, I do believe there are certain stimuli that will ignite an explosive reaction. Case in point, if a young man has been attacked by thugs when he is a boy, he may rescue another person facing the same situation. But, the response may be fatal for the thugs.
2006-08-27 15:53:28 · answer #1 · answered by Calvin of China, PhD 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Excellent question and an unusual opportunity to address something that is little known... but which you seem to have discovered.
A basic operational function of ones MIND [we are talking about a subtle body of energy that is not ones brain] is to "vent" the energy [usually negative in nature] that is generated when one or more of the deeply repressed traumata within ones MIND realm is/are stimulated.
A specific repressed trauma [a repressed memory from birth or shortly thereafter] is stimulated within ones MIND when one is relating with someone within whom the same trauma is active. The degree to which ones trauma is stimulated depends upon how attached, emotionally, one is to the person.
The way in which one "vents" the energy thus stimulated is most often habitual.... as ones MIND has done this so often that it has routines that are used. Sarcasm, anger, quickly leaving the scene, and so forth are ways the negative energy is converted from emotional MIND-level energy into physical expression... whose purpose is to disguise the nature of the trauma whose stimulation is generating the emotional energy being dissociated from oneself.
So, the answer to you question is yes, every emotional outburst is preceded by an automatic protective process of ones MIND. The tangible expression of this energy rarely suggests the nature of the repressed trauma that generated the need to "vent". It takes a rather enlightened level of empathy to discern the nature of the trauma serving as the generator for the emotional energy being expressed in behavioral activity.... since the MIND intentionally masks the trauma by expression that diverts attention from the actual nature of the trauma.
2006-08-20 04:06:32 · answer #2 · answered by docjp 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Gosh sarit, you know the answer to your first question don't ya? Did you realize you asked two questions? No one can answer your second question because no one knows what her character is from what you have written. Of course, what you've written is probably reasonably clear to you, but, your english composition really suffers from puncuation, structure and meaning ... I mean please care enough about me to write correctly and clearly so I can get your point!
Come on fella! There's no sense in experimenting with the gal, just go to her and break the ice by saying "Hi."
Probably, the most important thing you might keep in mind is not your bachelor days, but, your married ones. Forget her and get on with your life. Quickly!"
2006-08-26 07:06:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We do Easter baskets - somewhat candy (regularly that we've made) and the youngsters each and each get an exterior pastime or toy for summer. We do an egg hunt with the plastic eggs, and we positioned everywhere from a penny to a $5 bill in each and every person. in spite of they discover, is theirs. Then we've a Christmas-form dinner.
2016-12-17 14:02:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely probably stemming from past regressions of another life.
2006-08-27 23:36:40 · answer #5 · answered by tamara.knsley@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are thinking too much and watching too many Bollywood movies
2006-08-24 22:35:42 · answer #6 · answered by Baby_Apocalypse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely or why else would it happen? At the very least for attention.
2006-08-20 04:15:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
but of course.. ther eis always a reason for everything, right?
2006-08-20 04:37:38 · answer #8 · answered by gracielle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They gotta come from somewhere.
2006-08-20 03:06:57 · answer #9 · answered by anitababy.brainwash 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
from psychodynamic (freudian) theory.....YES
2006-08-20 17:27:03 · answer #10 · answered by mochi.girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋