Hey Friends!!!
!!!Answer should be from the heart!!!
2006-08-20 02:51:54 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
IF they are both consenting adults, no problem. What do you care what people think? Shows immaturity.
2006-08-20 02:56:14 · answer #1 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not? What if the woman was 21 and you 32? Would you be asking that question? Of course not! My son is 42, his wife was 60 ( she died last month) they were together 18years and very happy.
His friend is 54, his wife is 89, they have been married 12 years and love each other as if it was just yesterday they married.
I am 62, my fiancé is 29 and he has been asking me to marry him since 2 years..I just accepted and all his family and friends are elated.
The heart knows no age, it is society that puts AGE on everything as if it mattered.
So go ahead and have a relationship, fall in love and get married. My best to both of you.
2006-08-20 09:59:43 · answer #2 · answered by Princess Amerindienne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is blind it sees no ago, no race, no sex, and no religion. I was 19 when I married a 44 year old man we were together for 5 years when passed away from a car accident. There is nothing wrong with the age difference. Heck my step mother is now 44, my father is 76, and my real mother is 87. It's all good. I'm 33 and my bf is 26.
2006-08-20 10:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by michigan_redneck_lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some instances it may seem odd, however there is not much age difference considering it to be only 11 years. Would it seem odd if she was 62 and he was 51? Maybe he feels more comfortable with a mature and experienced woman! When she is 91 he will be 80 years old!
2006-08-20 10:01:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I started dating my husband when he was 21 and I was 33. We lived together 10 years and married last May. We have never seperated and are best friends. (Side Note) The reason we waited so long to marry was because everyone assured us marrying would ruin our relationship but they were wrong. Good luck!
2006-08-20 10:00:18 · answer #5 · answered by ceshinesville 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My stepdad is 13 years younger than my mom and he's the best thing that ever happened to our family.
They've been married for 35 years now!
There's no reason to think she's too old to bear children...anyway couples can never be sure they can have children together unless they've done a bunch of fertility testing.
And for the guy who says you'll lose interest in her, I don't think he knows what love really is...no offense to him.
2006-08-20 09:58:51 · answer #6 · answered by Jazmanana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends...on what you want and what she wants. If you are both fine with the relationship and no body else objects, then what it the problem? Are you worried she wants more from you than you are willing to give? If so, best course of action to be a real man is to just ask her what she expects. You might be sorrowly dispointed, or perhaps, pleasantly surprised that she wants nothing more than the booty call.
2006-08-20 09:58:14 · answer #7 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am afraid it isnt . From a sexual point of view it proably is because the woman wants a sexual active partner so she goes for someone who is younger than her. For the 21 years old man it is because he wants a mature woman who will accept and experiment. But from a mental point of view eventually the woman will get bored of the 21 . Because she will find him immature . I am afraid it wouldnt work for a marriage because there will be immaturity - eventual boredom - lack of understanding. The 21 isnt capable of grasping the responsibilities of a mature woman demands. So Yes for sex and No for marriage.
2006-08-20 10:04:00 · answer #8 · answered by H S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love does not know age, only your heart know that it is love and how you feel, Don't ever let the numbers make you decision for you let you heart and head. It is who you choose to be with and there is nothing wrong with that at all. Good luck
2006-08-20 09:58:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course i'm spiritual counsellor and ask you question do you feel this sensation in your body or another words in your heart answer is yes but there is one back draw they have tendency age faster than men.due to babies delivery.you slightly will be over her personality because of your age ;funny thing my son started with 65 year old woman then he moved to 4o years and now its 52 and he 34years now .so we roller coaster here and that's what it takes.the age is only in our heads and if is your soulmate may be is ok.one little advice spend few dollars on physchic reading and you 100% don't forget put the god up front and leave all problems to him that's he is here god blessyou
2006-08-20 10:19:51 · answer #10 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll simply say this. I'm now 23, my husband just turned 40 friday. I married when I was 19. Understand my point?
Blessings To You & Yours
2006-08-20 14:12:57 · answer #11 · answered by Pastors Wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋