Do you OFTEN still fantasise about sex with other women? and do you think it is OK to still do this after being married for 21 years. My husband does and says there's nothing in it, he does it a lot...at least once a week. I don't like it and think it shouldn't be like that. I don't do it about men as I'm happy with what I have. He tells me he is happy with me but to me that doesn't add up.
2006-08-20 02:48:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is saying he wants to be with the likes of that.
2006-08-20 03:29:24 · update #1
HILLBILLY... I didn't know this, I have had to drag it out of him because it is something he has continued to do all our married life. He has admitted to nothing until I found him out.
2006-08-20 03:32:13 · update #2
He has said he would go with them if he had the chance.
2006-08-20 03:33:45 · update #3
Ok Sweetheart, He is a guy, right. Every guy I know, well that isnt gay wants to have sex with just about every women in the world. now is he going to do this, probably not. He says that he is happy with you. I meet my wife about 5 years ago, when we started dating I told her the first week "The day I stop looking, Thats the day she had better bury me." Now I Love my wife to death and I would never cheat on her.
2006-08-20 03:17:16 · answer #1 · answered by Bigjohnsonwiner 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear, hmmm, he does it once a week? Is it the same person each time or a different one. I guess it doesn't matter, but, I'm sure you have had ideas of another guy holding you or something other than sex. I am almost sure we all have at sometime or another. Anyhow, once a week seems to be alot. I'm not a man madly in love, but I am a woman that has been around the block and have talked to many. Noone understands life or the opposite sex. You have been married 21 years. THAT'S GREAT!!!!! Maybe he is going through what is called a "mid life crisis" and wants to be faithful to you. I wouldn't like the fact that my man was fantasising about other women, but I know he does or will. Maybe you can get some things to make him interested in mainly you again. Good luck.
2006-08-20 10:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by tjosen2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've only JUST got together with my best friend of 3 years, but I've been in love with her for ages (and still am). I think that men and their fantasies is something that will never change. I still think about other girls but in no-way does it mean I have any feelings for them sexually or would prefer to be with them than with my girlfriend. I love her more than anything, and ALL guys enjoy the ocassional fantasy, but I'm going to assure you they mean nothing.
2006-08-20 09:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he sounds like he is trying to shock you a bit.he is being careless towards your feelings.maybe he wants you to come up with some fantasy and act it out for him.you could try it and see if that changes his ways otherwise i think maybe he mite stray eventually.which after 21 yrs is a shame.the best thing you can do is sit down with him and talk about it.
2006-08-20 11:17:14 · answer #4 · answered by choccycat1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women like to fantasise too ... think about that one, fellas.
2006-08-20 10:53:22 · answer #5 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a man but this is perfectly normal for anyone man or woman all people have fantasy's as long as he is faithful and good to you then it really shouldn't matter i mean i really think its more unnatural to not think of other people now and then as it is to
2006-08-20 10:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes most blokes do but often that's all it is a fantasy .i think of Belinda Carlisle sometimes and then heaven really is a place on earth.
2006-08-20 10:08:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a man but i have often caught my boyfriend lookin at pretty girls in the supermarket, pub etc an i know exactley how u feel..
Y do they do it if they are happy then dont look !!
2006-08-20 10:39:27 · answer #8 · answered by katty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thinkinf of someone else is normal if ti gives hiim pleasure untill nd unless he's with someone else dont take it seriously its natural tell me dont u think of sexy men
2006-08-20 09:55:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only fantasise he should be telling is his one about you.
2006-08-20 10:04:10 · answer #10 · answered by easymoney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋