I want to be childfree by choice for rest of my life. I am 23, boy and have never indulged in sex. I am not interested vasectomy. Pills and condom are effective but in case if my girls misses even one pill, unwanted pregnancy can happen.
My main question: Not doing sex is 100% effective. Can i live without sex for rest of my life specially when i have never experienced it ?
2006-08-20 02:15:00 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Yup, but I wouldn't want to.
2006-08-20 03:18:48 · answer #1 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No you can not live without it the temptation will eventually get you.
Always use a condom no matter what. Also having a child is not the end of the world. There is nothing like being loved by your child. It is a great responsibility.
Also never ever have sex with a woman that you are not willing to face every day for the next 20 years no matter what.
2006-08-20 02:23:53 · answer #2 · answered by Jacob A 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It's possible to live without it, but I'd suggest you become some type of religious figure where it is required of you. Most men cannot (mind over matter thing...) live without it and once you've experience it, you will most likely find that too. It's in our genes to want to have sex, in order to reproduce, even if that is not your purpose. Why not just make a commitment to yourself that you will substain from intercourse until you a married or in a serious relationship and find someone who feels the way you do about not wanting children? Trust me, I'm a female who NEVER wants children and neither does my husband.
2006-08-20 02:35:20 · answer #3 · answered by SadToday22 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I THINK A vasectomy IS A MUCH better option it's not a big deal at all. My dad had one after i was born he went BACK TO WORK right after he said two days top he was FINE. Yes you could by choice never have sex but you will get lonely and it will be hard to find a women who you can share your life with sex free.
2006-08-20 02:31:32 · answer #4 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes , you can live without sex for the rest of your life . If people tell you that you are gay because you never had sex , they are stupid , How can you be gay if you are a virgin . Tell people that you have taken an oath of cellibacy and will not have sex either way . At least you will not have to worry about venereal diseases . What ever happened to " NO SEX " before marriage .
2006-08-20 02:44:51 · answer #5 · answered by rocknrod04 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not having sex for life? Its just unnatural. Thats why the Vatican is accepting homosexual priests now. There vows of celabacy only led to unhealthy sexual acts against children all over the world. So go ahead and relax and find a partner to enjoy the experience. You can still remain child free if you have sex. And besides why give up something so pleasurable. You do not even know what your missing out on. Good luck!
2006-08-20 02:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by glooscaps c 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
You say you've never indulged in sex...You've never had wet dreams? You've never masturbated? You've never even thought about it, right? (As Masters and Johnson said, 99 percent of Americans admitted to masturbation--and the other 1 percent are liars.)
If you absolutely have no sexual desires or feelings or capacity, then I suppose you can live without it. But if you have any feelings or desires at all, my question is: why on earth would you want to forgo the greatest pleasure we humans have? For what purpose? You can have sex without children. The pill is one thing you can use. Intercourse may result in pregnancy, but you can have numerous other forms of sex without intercourse, though again I can't imagine why you'd want to avoid intercourse.
2006-08-20 02:49:33 · answer #7 · answered by Pandak 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
well being a virgin for the rest of your life is applaudable. i have never had sex but i do wish to. going without it for your whole life is quite difficult, but not impossible, but if u manage it i swear i would bow down to you. personally i believe i could do it if i had no choice, but right now im not in that position. but the thing is you said u want to be childfree forever, but their is always a chance that the girls will still become pregnant, even if u use a condom as i dont believe them to be a 100% effective. if u wanna have sex then that risk will always be their, but if your will not to have a child is more stronger than your will to have sex, then i would say dont do it. and u can go your whole life without sex if u believe u can, and u are able to control yourself.
but i beleive you wont have to go through all this as when you get older and more mature you will be dying to have a child at one point. but for now i suggest you keep using your hand to pleasure yourself.
2006-08-20 02:29:41 · answer #8 · answered by ramkrishna 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
theoretically you can. but i'd say just get a vasectomy and live your life and have fun. i mean, people say you can go without sex, but you always see priests on tv with little boys. so i'm not so sure. i'm sure some people have. good luck trying to find a girlfriend that feels the same.
2006-08-20 02:21:06 · answer #9 · answered by anonymous 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Once you get married, consumating your marriage and engaging in sex with your wife is part of marriage.
So, I would say NO.
Once you experience it, you'll want it again. And you're young. You may change your mind about having kids when you get older. Many people wait until their 30's to have children.
Just keep waiting to have sex, and when the right woman comes into your life and you get married, believe me, sex won't be a thing you're against....
Good question, BTW}
2006-08-20 02:25:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you can live your whole life and never have sex. Believe me it's not always what people say. You can do other things without a girl and be happy, or you can do four-play and you are still not having sex. It's really up to you on how you want to live your life but for me I gotta have it.
Take care.
2006-08-20 02:22:48 · answer #11 · answered by speedracer54348066 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋