should i call her again is this a bad sing she dosent care?

Question

i met this girl at the club she is 23 and i am 19 i met her sitting alone by her self we talked for a bit about ourselve i told her i lived in the suburbs she told me about her trip to chicago i told her my age and she was fine with that and after the conversation she said give me call sometime and she gave me her number and you that i should call her she introduecd me to some of her friends, but there was this one guy that was protecting her like abody gaurd wich i could understand he looked like he liked her to, i called her yesterday we did not talk for very long possibly 5 minuets and then she said she had to let me go because she had to watch highlander the movie

she told me to call her some other time should i do that or will that make me look desperate

Answer 1

Call her again. But just wait a few days. If she blows you off again, then take the hint that she's not really interested and then don't call back.

Answer 2

Dude, she is either a player or you just called at a bad time! Now, usually one can easily tell if someone is a player type of person! You just seem to have some difficulties to 'recognize' people. In this case, there is not really a whole lot anyone can help you with. You just have to work on how to 'recognize' individuals, because if you don't you will always end up misunderstanding things. Or not having solutions to social settings.

By meeting her at the bar and talking to her over the phone, you shall have a pretty good idea what kind of person she really is! But maybe it just takes you somewhat longer to 'read' people, in this case give her another call.

Answer 3

Try again in a few days .. anything could have been going on I mean she could have had to take a **** and not wanted to tell you. Wait like 2-5 more days and call her back. Don't wait too long or she might go back to the club and meet someone else. When you call her don't just talk - ask her to go do something with you. If she says no after that .. then **** her

Answer 4

You don't want to be interrupted while you watch your favorite sport, right? Consider the same for her. You should've watched Highlander, too (whenever possible) when she hanged up, and use it as an opening subject upon your next call. That just might interest her. Otherwise, call her a bit later and you'll definitely see if you have to continue calling her. Did she ever asked for your number at all? If not, well........ use your imagination.

Answer 5

Anything could have been going on in her life when you called. Perhaps she had company and she was attempting not to be rude. Give it a bit then call her again. If she's too busy then give her your number and tell her nicely to just call when she has a chance. Then its her choice. You're not bothering her or being rejected. She can call if she wants. The pressure is off from you.

Answer 6

Dude,make sure that BGguy isnt a brother, or anX,and do some research.Phone,but dont sound like your future depends on it,or if you want to feel her out ,tell her how you feel.And about BGguy,all she can do is either tell you,or lie,so theres another clue.Be careful,this is straight from the heart-eddie/67

Answer 7

Just forget about her. She sounds like trouble. You can do better, anyway. She's one of these types that will make you jump through all kinds of hoops and take away your last shreds of dignity, just because she gets a kick out of messing with people. Run, don't walk.

Answer 8

Just wait for her to call. She seems that you doesn't want to talk with you. Let her do the calling now. You do not want to look desperate

Answer 9

There are plenty of fish in the sea. Don,t get caught up with this girl. You are young and you have a lot of time to find the "right" one.

Answer 10

I say call her again. If she still seems like she's blowing you off after the second call, forget about her & move on.