whether you're single or married, in a crowd or alone.... how not to feel lonely?
2006-08-20 01:35:34 · 14 answers · asked by Ah Huay 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I think the loneliness you are referin to is the kind you feel anywhere..even if you´re surrounded by people right? That kind of empty space inside us..?...well, if its that kind of loneliness, im not sure..cuz im still tryin to figure out how to not feel that way myself...but i think the reason we feel it is cuz we havent found the thing that makes our lives feel complete...everyones always searchin for somethin..maybe the lonely feelin is kind of like a drive to keep goin until we find it? Sometimes ppl find the thing they are lookin for in their partner and sometimes they find it in the things they do, like their achievements and stuff...but hey, either way, im sure you´ll find the things you´re lookin for in life, so dont worry about it. Just try to have fun and keep doin the things that make you happy. :)
2006-08-20 06:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jaded 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that people should learn to enjoy their own company and do things for other. The first allows someone to appreciate him/herself as an individual, the second prevents someone from spending all the time thinking about themselves and how lonely they think they are.
Find a hobby that you can do on your own and produces tangible results ( I found origami!). Also find an activity that involves other people, the best ones give you a chance to help other (I work with my alumni organisation to assist our old school).
Lastly if you are looking for a partner, stop looking! Just accept that eventually someone will come along and focus on enjoying your life.
2006-08-20 08:53:12 · answer #2 · answered by lokai1701 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get involved with something you really like doing whether it's alone or with other people. The satisfaction you get from that will lead into other areas of interest and if thats with other people you will find it.
2006-08-20 08:42:23 · answer #3 · answered by Rocky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's impossible not to feel lonely at times. Involving myself in things that I enjoy seems to keep that feeling at a minimum, though.
2006-08-20 13:47:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is true that some people might feel lonely even he/she has many friends. I think the problem is that he/she didn't know how to deal with friends. So be active and engage in activities with your friends.
2006-08-20 08:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by cano j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the things you enjoy doing when you are by yourself. Also, try to find people with common interests that you like being with.
Good luck! Have a nice day.
2006-08-20 08:40:20 · answer #6 · answered by American citizen and taxpayer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must realize that your Supreme Friend, the Supreme Personality of Godhead is always with you, within your heart and that He is the most loving, the most attractive, the most wonderful person. If you want to know how to realize it I can tell you more.
2006-08-20 08:39:53 · answer #7 · answered by H. B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus things that you are interested;like shopping, chatting, movies;etc. Get a few friends shared with your interest, otherwise you yourself shared your friend interest. Then you will find yourself very busy, maybe no time for other things.
2006-08-20 10:21:03 · answer #8 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self-confidence & accepting that Loneliness is only temporary.
I like my own company, it's under-rated.
2006-08-20 08:42:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop ignoring urself, get to know u! U'll love u, I'm sure u'll have the best of all.
2006-08-20 08:51:11 · answer #10 · answered by leed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋