2006-08-20 01:29:28 · 11 answers · asked by grace 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's an ex for a reason, I would keep that in mind. If your sister and your exbf love each other and he's better off with her than you, you should be happy for your sister that she found someone for herself. Don't look at it from your point of view. Maybe your sister doesn't know that's your ex. Maybe she doesn't know the reason why he's an ex, maybe she didn't intend to step over yours, but either way he's not yours anymore. Be happy for them, move on and have fun. I wouldn't even waste the energy of being pissed off either.
2006-08-20 01:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!, but I will not give up hope that maybe the sister is happy because love is something that can not be meddled with! However, I know that I would talk it over with the sister before the marriage on whether she knows, for herself, that it's a good thing. Show your support for her own decision-making as you listen and make certain she knows how you feel. Then come to a compromise. At that point, you would have to do the same thing with him, and then all three of yah - to make the final.
2006-08-20 08:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by Brennus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
H to the NO.. what was ur sister thinking... i mean i know sometimes it happens but if u don't have a problem w/it then don't sweat it... but u should've let ur sister know as soon as she started dating him...
2006-08-20 08:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's not taking him away from you or they do love each other ,I don't think there's a fault on it ! No fault does not means they are right ,why don't they think about your feelings,I feel bad for you but don't think too much ,you can't control them anyways,just let's it be !,
2006-08-20 08:51:04 · answer #4 · answered by canada2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if Jerry Springer approves!
2006-08-20 08:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not in this lifetime, unless of course if my sister did not want me 4 a family member anymore.
2006-08-20 08:34:58 · answer #6 · answered by Nthape 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your ex and she did not take him away from you purposely, I can see no fault in it.
2006-08-20 08:33:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you say such a thing?...no that wont happen at all, is that what has happened to you?...because it just aint right.
2006-08-20 09:00:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it will be horrible.
but i think my sister won't agree.
2006-08-20 08:35:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no thats messed up
2006-08-20 08:32:54 · answer #10 · answered by dancin_queenie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋