i had a go at my partner on friday night.i don't know how it started to be honest because seconds before we were mucking around. anyway i come back from work yesterday to find some of his toiletries gone and 1 of his best shirts. i got my dad to take me to my oh work and followed him from work to his mothers where he claims he was staying and not going home. i said i was going to stay but he threatened to take a trip round to the police. he did and i went back home. why does he do this to me whenever i have a go at him?why can't he be a man?he always runs to mummy but expects everthing to be fine once he comes home. it's not the first time he's walked out on me,about 3 weeks ago he did it and claimed he was at a friends. when really the whole time he was at his mummy's. why does he do this?is it to hurt me or control me. and whats keeping me with him?
2006-08-20 01:25:01 · 17 answers · asked by coolbabe2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The man IS a jerk. Mummy has a lot to answer for here, she should not take him back. Next time tell him to stay with mummy until he is mature enough to let go of her apron strings.
2006-08-20 02:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is an immature, mummy's boy and I would be very wary of staying with someone like this because he will never change. I suspect he 'engineers' these arguments just so he has an excuse to go back to mummy. He is obviously very insecure as well as immature. I don't think it is anything to do with you, he just can't cut the apron strings with his mother. I think you stay with him because it is addictive. My advice, however hard it is, to run away from this relationship as fast as your legs will carry you because it isn't going to change and it will destroy you emotionally and psychologically. Good Luck.
2006-08-20 01:54:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knwo exactly how you feel mate my partner was a jerk untill I had enough and said it was over this morning do not put up with it it i can get out of it all so can you ,tell him to get lost and find someone new they say treat them mean keep them kean I was with my partner for over 2 years and it does get worse with time
2006-08-20 01:40:06 · answer #3 · answered by stephy200125 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very simple leave him.. he sounds real childish.. if ur living together than he shouldn't be spending the night out at anyone's house including mummy's unless she's extemely ill..
he continues to walk out on u cause u allow it.. next time he leaves change the locks on the door.. he wants to spend the night out, he should be discussing this w/u far in advance..
but if that doesn't work, move on and leave him...
2006-08-20 01:36:00 · answer #4 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has to grow up, hes to used to haveing mummy protecting him, mummys not helping him in the long run either. i would let him go back to mummy and change the locks and forget about him.
2006-08-20 09:05:26 · answer #5 · answered by shorty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time he runs back to mummy ignore him. when he comes back pretend that you didnt notice he'd gone. if it continues dump him - he's an idiot, but you need to stand up for yourself too when you find a new bloke. people can only treat you badly if you let them.
2006-08-20 03:33:13 · answer #6 · answered by dddp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not to sure but it seems like you love him and he needs to stay and sort things out with you instead of going his mums house. just try and talk to him let him know how you feel and if he still storms off you should consider moving on and find a new partner
2006-08-20 01:34:17 · answer #7 · answered by glowing flair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a mummys boy he cant take ppl being mad at him he needs to grow up and u need to find a real man
2006-08-20 01:30:51 · answer #8 · answered by ozcall2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will continue to do it for as long as you continue to run after him. don't follow him, don't phone him.
Next time he does it order a Chinese meal put your feet up watch TV and wait for him to come crawling back - HE WILL.
2006-08-20 01:33:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with him... he is a good, ordinery man. Once you're 60 you'll learn to appreciate him.
2006-08-20 01:55:03 · answer #10 · answered by cannadoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋