Iam 20 iam havin a beatiful gf she is same coll but different class . The problem is we are living in a small city .. she asks me to spend time with her.we spend time at restuarents but she is asking to go for shoping, parks , outside etccc( shopin means she spends for me not that problem) but if i take her out as our city is small . there is a chance that my dad comes to know he will kill me if i do such things So when ever she call me on sundays and holidays iam givig my phone to my frinds and saying that iam not there soemtimes swutching off the phone. she came to knew about it she is not talking with me last day she spoke me with a weeping voice?? what shall i do ?? dad or girl
2006-08-20 00:55:19 · 17 answers · asked by call_it_when_getti 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2006-08-20 00:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by doc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey my good friend, switching off your phone depicts immaturity and as a matter of fact proves that you are not yet ripe for the game you dambled into. I strongly believe that at the age of 20,you are man enough to love and be loved. Having a girlfriend at this age is no crime except when and where it conficts with your religion or beliefs. Since you have choose to be into it, you better play it well and avoid half measures. Be man enough, respectfully approach first either of your parents, the one you are closest to with the issue. He or she will then help you appraoch the harder one on your behalf. Sure the issue will be tabled to you later for a defence. Your presentation of the issue to them now matters a great deal because, that will prove to them that you are truly mature enough for what you are going in for. Once you secure their confidence, guy be sure you will enjoy their protections. Go ahead tell your dad and bring the girl in question home so that they will know whom you are moving out with. Being naive about it will not help you. There is always a first time and first impression to issues, be bold. Note, YOU DONT NEED A SECOND CHANCE TO MAKE FIRST IMPRESSION. Wish you luck.
2006-08-20 01:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by ebube 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet heart you are grown. It's time to stand up on your own two feet. Look inside yourself for the answer. Do you really love this girl? If so stand on the roof and tell everyone. You shoulndn't have to choose between your girl and your dad. FYI call your girl ,you have major groveling to do. Talk to your dad,you may just be making a mountain out of a mole hill.
2006-08-20 01:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by hot.sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's think about this. Now if you see yourself as a grown man you should be able to act like one and start making your own decision. Now, If you truly love this girl then it shouldn't matter what class she belongs to. This is the problem with the world. People are worried about what class someone belongs to. It is the 21st Century. Now it is okay to marry who we want. Now if you believe in god then it is the same thing. He would want you to be happy. As long as the girl isn't wicked or mean to you or other people then it is cool for you to marry her. Your father is going to have to understand this. Love is love. My Uncle married a women who wasn't all that as well. But she was able to give him two kids that he wanted for so long and she keeps my uncle out of trouble. So If I were you I would want to be with the girl. Your parents can't run your life for ever.
2006-08-20 01:08:01 · answer #4 · answered by catmenacestop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there...i can understand u r caught betwen the two!
the only and imp thing you gotta do is talk to her...politely ask her to meet u and listne to u...then u expalin her the real reason y u did such thing...explain her ur dad's mentality...and the problmes the two of you and ur realtionship cud face if ur dad leanrs about it.
just be HONEST!
Keep Smiling
Le Gra
Sne
2006-08-20 03:01:20 · answer #5 · answered by Sne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better tell her the truth so she'll understand. It's a matter of communication and what's wrong if you have gf it doesn't mean that you'll gonna get married so better tell your dad I'm sure your dad won't be against with this just remember your limitations.
2006-08-20 01:08:20 · answer #6 · answered by Heaven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Think both r imp but ur father gave u life so father is greater than GF but she is also imp as ur life patner both r same if she really loves u she will understand u if she is not loveing u and using for her wants u must avoid her this is right way u must do i think
2006-08-20 01:15:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say why your dad objects to your seeing this girl. Does he not want you to date at all or would he be opposed to this particular girl? Get in touch with the girl and apologize for being dishonest about your situation. Good Luck
2006-08-20 01:23:36 · answer #8 · answered by mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U did smthing really bad 2 ur girl, cn u imagine how bad she has felt? the first thing u should do is to appologise, nd then explain 2 her about ur situation. i think she s a sweet girl, and she will understand.
2006-08-20 02:29:57 · answer #9 · answered by lone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-05 05:28:30 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about introducing your girlfriend to your family, you shouldn't be afraid of your father in anyway. You're 20 yrs old, in college and doing what is necessary. Go to your mother and tell her you want to bring someone over for dinner. Than go to your father and tell him you met someone important in your life and you want to introduce her to him and the family. You have to let them get to know her and her family has to get to know you as well.
As for class what do you mean, different major than you in school or in social rank?
2006-08-20 01:03:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋