my bro-in-law does have a gf but wot i was asking in my previous question is that how do i deal with the bro-in-law ignoring me you see moving out with my bf is not the answer coz i think thats running away from the problem and not solving it and moaning to my bf is not good because he loves both of us and you can ask him to choose between his us as we are both family its like saying me choosing him over my mum and thats not fair. all i want is advice on how 2 deal with it whilst we are living ogether as living to gether is not a permamant situation.
2006-08-20 00:45:16 · 12 answers · asked by sexy babes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If it is not a permanent situation learn to accept it and get on with your life.
It is his problem, not yours so happily ignore him too.
2006-08-20 00:51:11 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him back. Just joking, you shouldn't worry about your brother in law ignoring you. Most likely you did something to him or maybe he likes you more than you think and he's trying to distance himself from you.
You have a boyfriend, be happy with him, enjoy and don't worry about his brother. That's the last thing you should worry about sheesh.
But if it's bothering you that much than just write him a letter and slip it under his bedroom door, explaining how you feel about him ignoring you and if he preferred to still do so than you'll do the samething. Leave the ball in his court basically. You made the attempt to speak to him so just leave it at that.
2006-08-20 07:52:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should any one chose.what you do is ask your brother_inlaw what his deal is with you and yall try and work things out.because if anyone gets hurt it will be your sister because she loves him.so dont run from the promble,face the promble head on and get to the bottom of it all.and good luck.
2006-08-20 07:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by bigmomma s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're cutting off your nose to spite your face! Your not moving out to proove a point, carry on like that and you'll be one unhappy lady trust me! Do what's right for you and your boyfriend. as I said in my last answer leave little, 'hints' around the house. x
2006-08-21 08:53:58 · answer #4 · answered by Little minx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry ran out of oxygen trying to read the paragraph above. Need to lie down
2006-08-20 10:40:51 · answer #5 · answered by smutmonkey71 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am running out breath no coma no full stop, and the grammar, that's something else.
2006-08-23 12:10:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you may have to suck it up while you two are under the same roof.
2006-08-20 07:52:26 · answer #7 · answered by Ray 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him.. don't let him walk away until its sorted! you both know its a horrible environment to be in - SO TALK - get it resolved before you all explode.
2006-08-20 07:56:12 · answer #8 · answered by scorpion queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa.. would love to help ya but shiet i couldnt understand a damn thing you said.
2006-08-20 07:49:54 · answer #9 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your brother-in-law is ur sisters property....
u should not expect him to manage u along with
ur b-in-law.....
2006-08-20 07:53:21 · answer #10 · answered by christo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋