i just want to know if wot i am doing ignoring my brother in law is the best solution not to let it interfer with my relationship with his brother i have been with his brother for 4yrs and he has got fed up of me complaining about certain things that is brother does to wind me up.. we are all living together at the moment at the start it was 4 of us but his gf moved out and now its 3 we are saving for our own place me and my bf but we stay in this house coz its cheap rent. so not to make my relationship bad its best to ignore wot his brother does to upset me and be happy with my bf coz he is the most important thing.. and not everybody is going to like me right so i just have to except that and get on with things and not make him bother me in the slightest.
2006-08-19 23:37:16 · 9 answers · asked by sexy babes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Right, If you love your BF that much then you need to put his feelings first. It's better that his brother ignores you, that way you can pretend he doesn't exist! Start looking for places that you and your boyfriend can afford, find a good deal and (subtley) leave them, say, on your bed for him to see. Men are lazy so if you do the work you might find you move out a lot quicker!!!!
2006-08-21 01:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by Little minx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try and get to know your brother in law better, I bet he is feeling like the odd one out at the moment, with no gf and you with his brother. Give them some bonding time alone, no questions asked and then invite him to spaned some time with you two all together. If he feels more secure he may not bug you so much. You need to find some way to get along becuase as the saying goes "You cant choose your family... "
2006-08-20 06:47:28 · answer #2 · answered by Nic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the brother in law is jealous that his brother has you. I would ignore him as much as I could. I am so sorry you have to live there with him.
2006-08-23 09:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do wot u feel is right as long as its not interfering with ur relationship than so be it. u are right u cant get on with every1 and trying would just make u unhappy and have an affect on ur relationship.
2006-08-20 10:35:10 · answer #4 · answered by big momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your brother in law has nothing to do with you and his brother's relationship...unless of course he likes ya too
2006-08-24 04:18:21 · answer #5 · answered by spunky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore the brother and if you and your bf really like or love each other move
2006-08-20 06:44:08 · answer #6 · answered by riverstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to find him another gf and then he will be busy with her and does not bother u anymore.
2006-08-20 06:42:31 · answer #7 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its up to your boyfriend to sort it out, never mind he's fed up of it its his brother.
maybe you need to ask him where his priorities lie, because from the sounds of it he would side with his brother not you.
2006-08-20 06:46:08 · answer #8 · answered by chunky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like there is a lot of jealousy and selfishness.
2006-08-20 06:41:57 · answer #9 · answered by JeffE 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋