Last night my mate Richard got completely rat-faced. I don't believe I've ever seen any one quite so drunk. He only had the same amount to drink as me, but obviously is not used to scrumpy! Anyway, at one point I found him, pants round ankles, covered in puke, asleep with his head down the bog. Being a keen photographer, and the light and shadows being so good and all, I snapped off a few piccies.
Now my conscience is bothering me. Should I just delete these pictures of the tortured soul, bereft of all human dignity, or should I email them around all our friends and relatives? What do you think?
2006-08-19 23:27:26 · 28 answers · asked by Avondrow 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
what dilemna! email em, perhaps he will go a little easier on the sauce next time, you could be doing him a favour!!!
2006-08-19 23:35:22 · answer #1 · answered by minesaphatone 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If he's a mate and has a sense of humour, he'll find it funny no doubt. I had a similar experience myself and laughed my **** off, I even popped my sack out, put it on a passed out Friends fore head, another mate took a picture and I showed my victim and everyone I know the next day.
Its not like you caught him doing anything that will get him into trouble like selling drugs or having sex with his cousin.
2006-08-19 23:50:27 · answer #2 · answered by graeme b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save him from embarrassment. Delete the photos.
There should be a level of trust in a relationship such that a mate should not enjoy a joke at her partner's expense.
If you were in a similar predicament--would you want assistance or would you rather have someone make you subject of a cruel joke and share that joke with family and friends?
2006-08-19 23:38:02 · answer #3 · answered by think4yorself 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get drunk to the Richard's LEVEL and ask Your Richard to click the same kind of adventure of YOU!.You will both realise the SAME level and if you wish you can also send the SAME to many friends to make adventure exchange!Now you will realise that ethical dilemma has the SAME ETHICS!
2006-08-20 00:00:02 · answer #4 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahah What a friend! With friends like you who needs enemies.
Mail them, mail them, mail them!
Just read it again, thats your excuse? I liked the light and shadows? Hope you think of a better excuse for when he sobers up. And hope hes not the big violent type or you are in it up to your neck.hahaha
2006-08-19 23:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by Rob G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Delete them. It's not funny and try getting your friend some help. Life is too short to watch it go by while anyone is drunk in the gutter. My friend's younger brother died on his front lawn choking on his own puke. My friend was never the same after that.
2006-08-19 23:39:56 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas S 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok so youve posted this as an ethical dliema.
1, is the guy over 18.. if not these pics could get u in trouble
2, did you buy him the drinks, if you got him drunk then took the photos... your a bstr*
3, whats his place in society, if this is prince harry were talking about, just sell them to the papers, he will get over it.
2006-08-19 23:46:08 · answer #7 · answered by yeah well 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if it was me, I would wait a few days, while he completely sobered up, and I would print them out on my scanner...
Then, I would confront him and ask if he wanted to see some REALLY WILD PHOTOS!
After he has seen them, I would say, "OK, now, when do you want to start the AA sessions?"
No one needs to see those pictures ever again, I think he will get the message loud and clear.
Also, you might want to think about joining up too!
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-08-19 23:49:07 · answer #8 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was stupid enough to leave himself in such a state, then he deserves to suffer the embarrassment of everyone knowing what he got up to! You could always say it's modern art? Pretty much anything can be these days!
EIther that or you could use them to blackmail him?!
2006-08-19 23:46:29 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel_03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will answer you with another question:
Do a good few laughs and jokes and commentaries justify the loss of a drinking mate?
2006-08-19 23:45:29 · answer #10 · answered by Andi Rolf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send them to him with a note that you HAVE mailed them to everyone. Share with everyone the story but not the pictures. Then just sit back and wait. You don't have to mess up your conscience to have a good laugh.
http://judgeright.blogspot.com
2006-08-19 23:36:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋