Hi, I'm 16. Here Is MY Story: When My Girl Told Me That She Was Cheating On Me I Felt Very Bad That I Didn't Came Out Of My Room For 3 Days, My Family Was Happy Now That I Didn't Put Music Loud And Etc. But Those 3 Days Were The Best Days OF My LIfe I Was Thinking And Finally When I Came Out Of My Room I Was A Different Guy. Now I Didn't Want To Have A Girl, I Said To Myself A Girl Is A Waste Of Time, Money, Nerves And Etc. I Said To Myself That From Now On I'm Going To Enjoy My LIfe, Be Free And Beacouse I Have Lots Of Friends And 90% Of Them Are Girls And Most Of Them LIke Me I Thought It Is Better To Be With All The Girls Than With One Enjoy Your LIfe But There Is A Problem I Think That I've Become A Pimp And Player Thats What Some Guys Told Me That I Got All The Good Girl's Around Me. So Here Is The Big Question "Should I Get A Girlfriend Again And Stop Being What M i Now And Is It Bad To Have Girls And Enjoy The Life Freely" I Do Realy Enjoy This Way Of Having All The Girl's
2006-08-19 22:59:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey, why should you care about wut other people think bout you? u hav the right to enjoy your life to its fullest... maybe they're juz jealuos of u.... i dun think u should get a girlfriend again if thats wut make u happy... juz do wut u want to... follow ur heart... =)
2006-08-19 23:05:47 · answer #1 · answered by aurora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your guy friends envy you.just don't listen to them.if you hang out with the best girls that does not mean that you are a pimp and player.it only means you are a great friend and that you know to listen to the girls.and that is just fine.it can be great especially when you will decide that it's time to have a gf again.because girls normally break up w/ their bf because they do not listen to them and their opinions.well nobody can tell you man you are weird if you hang out w/ girls but you do not have a gf.some might even say you are gay.but no.i think you are just a great normal guy.but think that if your girl cheated on you you don't have to believe that all the girls are like that...so don't believe that!
2006-08-23 02:20:12 · answer #2 · answered by gabryelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a bit funny to call a 16 year old a PIMP or a Player, anyway, it's ok to be free and have girls around you, when you grow up, you'll start to be more mature about relationships and will see that it's great to have one woman who is really close to you.
2006-08-20 00:36:22 · answer #3 · answered by E-Fox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I think you should give yourself time to cope with the loss of your previous girlfriend. Yes, it's good to hang around with other girls because, who knows, you might just develop love or interest in one of your female friends. But you should also hang out with guys as well because they are the ones who can really help you go through your pain. Whatever it is, do not care about what others say, be yourself and who you think you want to be. Do what you enjoy, then you will really be happy.
2006-08-19 23:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by Jeanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in the same situation as you but i am a girl i only just got out of a relationship myself because the guy i was just tryed to bye me instead of love me i only hang around guys because they don't want to get into a relationship and just remember you are only 16 and don't need to get in a relationship go out go to a party get a root just use protection and the other boys are jealous because you are pulling in all the hot chicks if you want some more advice just reply to me and i am also the same age and doing the same there is nothing wrong with what you are doing
2006-08-19 23:29:02 · answer #5 · answered by becc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont care if ya did put "girls only". I read anyway. Learn how to puncuate sentences before you start thinking about being some type of "BIG MAN" !!!!
2006-08-19 23:05:07 · answer #6 · answered by smokindoggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls obviously are too much for you if you barracade yourself in your room for 3 days. my advice is to probably just keep a single life for a while and then when you are a little older then reconsider dating.
2006-08-19 23:03:34 · answer #7 · answered by BEEFSHIELD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u dont see any girl that u really can love, just enjoy life..life is short... But dont hurt others for ur enjoyment please. eg. Dont say powerful word like LOVE if u dont really mean it...
2006-08-19 23:11:48 · answer #8 · answered by PP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your guy friends are just jealous... live life to the fullest, man! have fun with all the girls around you!
2006-08-19 23:06:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its your decision in not begging u 2 have a gurl im nice and all im not those kind of gurl's who's begging u so it's ur decision
P.S. Good luck
2006-08-22 09:19:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be what u want if u think it write to u then it must be dont let anyone change u
2006-08-19 23:05:20 · answer #11 · answered by NAUGHTY GURL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋