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Question

My boy friend and i have been together for 3years.our sex life have not been all that good.i am 20 he is 45 years of ages.he can not keep himself hard anymore.and he is 45.at one time he could keep it hard.and when he could he would only last 5 mintue.can someone tell me what is wrong with him. should he be doing this at 45.

Answer 1

45 is young, actually, and he might be tired, or sick you never know, or just not a guy who is sexually strong to begin with...Most guys who have a gal 25 years younger, would keep it going pretty good..I have seen guys in their fifties, that were pretty rambuntious...but if he is concerned, tell him kindly to see a doctor to rule out any underlying illness's...if you truly love him, then you will have to stand by and help him work through this. I hope he is alright.

Answer 2

Sweety......A Man goes through Biological and Chemical changes just as you will as you get older.

Please encourage your boyfriend to see a Urologists, Men at this this age, may develop Prostate problems, kidney stones......or just the good old fashion Stress related issues that will affect his ability to perform.

If by chance they just throw Viagra or other stimulates towards him, remember to read the side effects, many drugs affect the Heart, Good Luck, I hope all will work out for you.

Answer 3

Zoloft will help, if the doctor will prescribe it. Has just the opposite affect-he can keep going and going and going, tho ejaculation may not occur

Answer 4

look for a new boyfriend i suppose cos 20 and 45 is a long gap dont you think so. well i am always ready,ok byeeeeeeeeee.

Answer 5

wot is wrong........HIS AGE....thts wots wrong.....but there r alotta mediz out there thn can make him hard n last longer but i wud say tht 5 minz aint bad if sumtimez he getz hard.........befo takin ane mediz and takin people'z opinion i wud recommend u to take him to a doc........