i have a lady , but i been seeing another , and she is pretty cool
2006-08-19 22:01:16 · 11 answers · asked by william b 1 in Travel ➔ Other - Destinations
It is entirely possible to love more than one person. However, that is just for you. The problem is: if you love them, you will want them to be happy, and will they be happy sharing you? If the answer is no, you need to decide who to stay with. Making that choice BECAUSE you love them.
2006-08-19 22:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by cyberdjinn2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes tis possible, you can even love a thousand and thats AGAPE love , but you can give away your heart to one person only. Are you in love with this girl or just fascinated with this girl since she's the total opposite of your lady? If you love your lady that much then i suggest stay away from that cool girl or if you cant, then better be brutal honest with your lady, that your seeing someone.
2006-08-19 23:22:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you be okay with it if each of them also loves another guy. If so, you have the beginnings of a poly-amorous relationship. If you want them to each to be exclusively with you, that's not likely to work out too well. Love has more to do with giving than taking.
Of course the above is a bunch of generalities based on my own experience. What you find out in your life may be very different.
2006-08-19 22:17:57 · answer #3 · answered by beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not true love. Love is a combination of loyalty and trust. Apparently, what you see is something "fresh" or you have never loved your lady, and suddenly see the "light" of another. If you love someone, you wouldnt want to hurt her. However, you are hurting both girls.
2006-08-19 22:11:18 · answer #4 · answered by piyo006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem but its in reverse, my lady had a husband and seeing me ...but she lives in another country and i live in the usa.. every time i go to this country she gets away from home to be with me ..... b t w she's flying to stay with me next week...
2006-08-21 14:36:21 · answer #5 · answered by the1andonybump 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is best if you live on your own because you are going to keep doing this to the next one and the other one after that one. You might be getting tired of them or bored too soon. But I wouldn't call it love.
2006-08-19 22:12:59 · answer #6 · answered by Dolf-Wolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is this question in travel, it should be somewhere in relationships. The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. Shouldn't be two timing.
2006-08-22 18:00:56 · answer #7 · answered by mysticideas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u saying u r kinda like cheating? cause if u r u really need to stop and pick one of them. i mean yeah u can love to people but i dont think its good to be going oout with both. i mean if you wernt in a relationship u can crush on anyone u want!
2006-08-23 15:54:15 · answer #8 · answered by xlittle_lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,its possible..........u just have to figure out who u cant live without..that makes the difference
2006-08-19 22:08:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it happens all the time
2006-08-19 22:08:45 · answer #10 · answered by pumpkinism 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋