your views and advise........?

Question

1)what is the right age of person to marry?

2)why girls jealous to see her guy talking wth onther girl,on the other hand if her guy object her talk with some guy then she become monster?

3)love marriges will prove sucessfull more then arranged?

Answer 1

1) the age to marry really depends on the people themselves. I don't believe it has ANYTHING to do with physical age, but mental maturity. Some teenagers are wise well beyond their years, cognizant and emotionally able to marry. But they are restricted by law. Some adults should not marry, due to their immaturity, yet they can. The limitation on age is to prevent marriages that end up in divorce because many believe teenagers are subject to whims, and they are, but not everyone. I think... the right age to marry, personally, is 28 or older. By that time, you're well out of school, know what you want in life, what you must do, your goals and aspirations, and are grounded enough. Even if you were mature and ready years ago, this makes you sure that you're mature enough to take the step towards matrimony.

2) Girls tend to be... worried about men cheating on them. Men, not to stereotype but-- they tend to be the ones to cheat in a relationship merely because they don't have as strong emotional ties as women do to them. It's not always the case, but typically, sometimes, what women believe to be love, men believe to be something created out of convenience.
But when guys accuse girls of unfaithfulness, it's almost like a breach in trust. girls, well me at least, tend to view it as... the guy not trusting the girl. Girls talk to guys all the time out of necessity, but guys sometimes tend to flirt with other girls, even if they don't mean to lead them on.

3) Marriages of love aren't always more successful than arranged marriages. It's interesting, really, because you can fall in love easily, and out of love just as easily. The flame of passion can burn out as time progresses. But arranged marriages... if the foundation was purely political or financial, then something as fickle as the heart and words such as love would not be involved. Then, the foundation of matrimony is secure, because neither party wishes to break the merge, and they're content with having mistresses and man-mistresses. It's merely a political union. Marriages based on love, on the other hand, are based on feelings that can leave at any moment.

Those are my thoughts. I wonder... the divorce rate is pretty high-- increasing-- while the arranged marriage rate is DECREASING. is there any correlation? It seems as there are less arranged marriages, there are many more divorces of marriages of "love." Thoughts on this subject?

Answer 2

When they are ready, but 20 + is a good age. Depends a lot on the people's maturity level.

Because women can talk to men and be just talking without sex necessarily crossing their mind. Men on the other hand think about sex almost constantly, so if they're talking to other women chances are they're thinking about sex with them.

I think both types of marriage are successful in different ways, but love marriages tend to be happier ones.

Answer 3

The right age for marriage is not chronological. It's emotional and mental age. You are ready to get married when you can shift the spotlight off you and onto someone else; when you can make an honest assessment of yourself and muster the courage to change what you can; and when you can patiently wait for someone who cares enough about you to give you the spotlight in his or her life.

Answer 4

right age for girls is 20 and boys is 24 yrs

trust should be there

both prove sucessful its depends on u how u get on with marriage

Answer 5

for girls 20 for boys 25
do u think we boys dont get jealous on other boys when our girl friends flirting with them jealous is common and itsjust bcos of over affection
love marriages requires lots of guts from the couple other than that nothing spl in love marriages