Are Big Girls Unattractive? Not Fat, Just Big...?

Question

I am a bigger girl, and have been told by countless people I should get liposuction to make me skinny as big girls are un-sexy.

My only problem is, that for my height and body type, i am actually a healthy weight.

I am happy with the way i look (http://www.myspace.com/serenityn0va) and am confident despite being big.

My question is this: Do guys find bigger women unattractive, even if they are perfect for their height and body type? Or is it just overweight people men don't like?

Answer 1

Ofcourse. there are attractive guys who love girls who are a bit thicker than skinny girls. A little extra curve in the right places are a big turn on, depending on the kinds of guys your around. Some people think super thin is attractive. Those guys will go for any girl who incredibly thin. Some guys like medium sized girls, and some like thick girls. It's all attractive, just find the right crowd of guys and you'll get the attention you desire.

Whats unattractive are girls who are skeleton thin, or very over weight. Even the guys that date them know they're not very attractive, regardless if some say they love fat chicks because many of those guys use those girls for sex knowing they're self-esteem is low, which will make getting some sex from them easy to do. You don't want to be in that catagory. But thick is sexy and respectable.

Answer 2

If you are the right weight for your height then you are the right size. It's not a matter of how much you weigh, it's the proportions that matter. And beyond that it's you own self image. There are many different body types, and who's to say which is more attractive? If you're not petite then there's no way to force yourself into that body type.... And don't worry about it.

Answer 3

I'm confused here, are you big vertically or horizontally

Tall is fine, I've often told people that I'd climb a certain someone like a tree.

Heavy is something different. If you want to get a little healthier that is great; jog a little, maybe ride the bike a bit. Just be healthy, too fat or too thin is never sexy.

Answer 4

I don't have a problem with any girls. I like girls that are themselves and not pretend that they are something they're not.
Big, small, tall, short, long hair, short hair. They are all attractive to me. I look for personality, not model looks!!!

If a guy cant find at least 1 thing that they like in a girl, then they don't deserve them.

Answer 5

A lot of guys (incl me!) don't find skinny girls attractive. You're right to be confident and happy in yourself because you're what a lot of guys like...

Answer 6

i personally find tall women attractive but from a guys point of view overweight is not all that attractive
people like people for who they are not what they look like, everybody finds a person attractive for all sorts of reasons what one person don't like another person does
just love yourself for who you are somebody who turns there nose up at you will be another persons gain

Answer 7

No way, large girls are just that, large. Not fat, they look fine, they look as good as any other size of girl. Just feels right to be with a dude who is large also, tho maybe.

Answer 8

Sweet heart. It's not about what you look like it is about who you are. And forget those people that said you not beautiful. Lipo is dangerous and your happy be yourself and the right man will love you for who you are.

Answer 9

to me size doesn't matter,,it personality thats important.yes big girls are attractive if in proportion to height. big hug (((((serenityn0va)))))) keep smiling!

Answer 10

Mostly overweight women are hated on. The expression is, "no fat chicks," not "No twenty foot tall chicks."


But for me, if the girl's bigger than I am, it's kinda turn off.