this is complicated because it involves a lot of people and i love my family.
2006-08-19 21:10:57 · 72 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
sleep wiz her sister
and your bro wife or GF
2006-08-19 21:37:07 · answer #1 · answered by z wizard 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Walk away....then you can go and cook and eat rice.
But in all seriousness, its a very unforgiving act that is very hard to have to deal with, rather than just let her go. I mean, if you found this out directly (Walked in on them or whatever), I mean, the relationship has already been scarred and its hard to mend. If you found indirectly, then if you really care about this person, you can try to see what was the deal. The hardest, but best, way to show how much you care is by changing yourself for their needs.
But if you don't love her THAT much or you don't want to deal with the hassle, then let her go. Then confront your bro on what pain he caused you. Should he show compassion, then maybe you create understanding. But if he could hardly care less, then not only have you walked away from a relationship that you shouldn't put yourself through, you also bring into the open how your brother truly feels about you.
Tough world out there. Good luck.
2006-08-19 21:17:43 · answer #2 · answered by disoneguy300 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No joke.....
I would have a big issue with that. That is so wrong and gross.... If you can forgive her and your brother then try to if not ...Move on! Most the time I say if someone cheats once then give them another chance but it being with your brother isn't good at all. That's about as low as you can get. Not being mean but dang...That's pretty nasty.
It's up too you and if you can live with the fact.
That's messed up
2006-08-20 15:20:33 · answer #3 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's terrible. Let every body in your family know what happened, let them judge your brothers actions and as for your wife, well I personally could never trust her again and even if I still loved her I would still have to end the marriage. After all, she must not love you or have any-kind of respect for you or for the idea of "Family" to do a thing like that, that goes for your brother too.
2006-08-19 21:22:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
like the one guy said... join in. Just kidding. Your wife obviously has no respect for you, or herself for that matter. Once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater. You need to get rid of her, no doubt. As for your brother... you need to have a long talk and get everything out in the open and then try to move forward. Don't let him walk all over you, but don't disown him either. Time eventually heals everything.
2006-08-19 21:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is obvious your brother and wife do not love you. Leave your wife and if your family was like mine, your brother would be kicked out of the family. But hey i am italian and we have kicked a lot of people out.
2006-08-19 21:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by RichUnclePennybags 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow some really good answers (not above)
Well it all depends on whether you have kids or not, and if your close to your wife's family as well as to yours. Maybe you could resolves this in marriage counseling, or if it's really that bad separate for awhile, and takes some time out for yourself. Or just divorce her, hopefully you have a prenup!
2006-08-19 21:16:07 · answer #7 · answered by grumpy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
War sucks yeah man........... and love and peace is the way of the future man..........hey hold that thought Ive gotta pull another cone.
Hey i would of thought that you hippy's would be used to dealing with situations like this.
If you still don't know what to do then sleep with his wife/gf then you'll be even or if that doesn't do it for you call Jerry springer hell be able to council you.
Hope this helps.
2006-08-19 21:19:46 · answer #8 · answered by Aussie Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because she beat you to it....
Look to your question and your answer is there, you care more about what she did than what he did, and; it is not complicated unless she is pregnant or slept with other people. She cheated on you.
Either divorce her or forgive her. As for your brother, same thing.
2006-08-19 21:21:22 · answer #9 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let the situation cool down first before you decide. Take all necessary considerations. Decide fairly. You can go on some place to think about the entire scenario just before you decide what would you like then to happen.
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2006-08-19 22:50:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave her. She doesn't love you, and life is too short to waste time on people like that! A brother is harder, because he will always be your family. But if you never talk to him again, that's his fault.
2006-08-19 21:19:54 · answer #11 · answered by Lulu Kapowski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋