my boyfriend of almost one year has been acting diff. latly, we fight more, mostly over little stupid things, and when i try to tell him if i feel neglected or upset about somthing he just gets upset with me and turns it on me. School started back up and i feel like i never get to see him. i love him to death but i just dont know what to do. Sometimes i wonder if he loves me as much as i do him, he says he does but im just not sure sometimes. He talks about his EX'S to people like their best friends, should i be worried about that? Is it common to be having little fights? What should i do about our little communication (fighting) problems? Also when i leave his house at night he always makes plans to go hang out with his friends (guys) but theirs always other girls their... should i be worried about that? i already do but i was just wondering if im over reacting?... he always says i am.
2006-08-19 20:51:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Girl I can Honestly say I have been there!! Me and My boyfriend have been dating for almost a year and its true after a while your going to fight but if you didn't fight how would you really know each others true Feelings! Me and My boyfriend Live together but him and his friends still make Planes and yes there might be a girl there but I trust him and I know he would not cheat on me! I have been told I was over reacting also and as it turned out I was! You need to trust your man Because without Trust there is no relationship!!!
~Kimberly
2006-08-19 21:05:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like his eyes have began to wander and if he hasnt already cheated he soon will... Trust me when i say i know the signs, ive had it happen to me and ive also been on the other side aswell... If your still at school than your only young, theres plenty of time for love later on in your life... Enjoy yourself, go out with your friends, do everything you want to do... I had 2 kids before i was 20 so my advice is dont settle down 2 young, once you do your life may not be as good as you invisioned as a child...
2006-08-19 21:31:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be frank...That's what my b@stard bf did to me when im still schooling too... and he said the same thing to me too! Saying i'm over sensitive and i think too much...
Let me tell you gal...Dump him..i know you love him so deeply like what i feel for that b@stard that time...just tell yourself, no one can save you other than yourself in this $hit...The longer you drag and thinks that you really at fault, you really over react, the more you will love him and the more difficult you can let go of him..believe me...As it takes 4 years to break and patch up and break with him till i found my true love now..who treat me so dearly...
Good guys will get bothered when you are angry or sad..they won't plan to go out with his friends and neglect how you feel about the whole problem..my current bf will make an effort to spend time with me and solve our problem before he goes out..this is love my girl..It seems that your current bf don't even give a damn to you and your feelings..Just by saying i do love you doesn't mean anything..It's the actions that prove..
2006-08-19 21:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by barelyahrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all whats worrying you? What are you worried about?, or are you just jealous of the fact that he's getting out more. Whats with the girls? I dont get it. You should learn to trust. To even your curiousity, the next time he says he's going out say oh cool, if you know one of his mates mention his name to see if he'll be there, so your interacting with him. Or go with him now and then, so those girls know he's taken, and dont show it, its just outragous to see that a girl is trying to impress him, just lay your hand over his when its tucked in his pocket and hug his arm so he can feel your heart beating, and get into the conversation with him, so he knows you wanted to be with him and not just make those others jealous. If he starts talking about his ex just ignor it, chances are he's getting over her and falling more in love with you. just keep up your appearances, and call him more than ever and tell him how he makes you feel when you are feeling down or sad, you know, make him feel important in your life even more than he thought he might of.
2006-08-19 21:41:13 · answer #4 · answered by Ria P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to tell you, but from what your saying, it looks like hes not to into you. I mean if he is going to hang out with friends rather then you, cmon think about it. Take me for instance, I never leave my baby for friends. There is a certain time for friends, but never leave your girl to go hang with them. That is just g a y in my opinion. Good luck.
2006-08-19 21:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by AK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is too short to worry about a man, go out and have fun find new things to do, hang out with your friends and wait for him to call you to come hang out, and if you have made plans already tell him you cant come come, you never know you might find someone else who will love you and appreciate you better than he does have fun and good luck
2006-08-19 20:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by sweetie1995 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are. We all have a 6th sense about things and if yours is talking to you then you better listen to it. That little person in your head is telling you to be careful and to protect your heart. So whatever you feel isn't right then it probably isn't.
2006-08-19 21:16:48 · answer #7 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep yr distant in the meanwhile pretending he's invisible don't call or even accept his calls.See if there's any reaction from him,when there's none then U should know what to do.
2006-08-19 21:04:08 · answer #8 · answered by me_imah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate it when guys do that.but sadly guys do get PMS also.let him know you do not like him talkin about his ex.HELLO your his girl he should be talkin about you.little fights common not everyday though.do you trust him? let him be with his buddy stop worrying if your worry continues and is affecting your work and studies then it is best to leave him alone.
2006-08-19 21:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by Amry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound a little too posessive.....Chill..Act like it doesn't bother you
2006-08-19 21:31:00 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋