i know this is love,not only attraction .please help me .i am an indian and i don't want to do intercourse before marriage
2006-08-19 20:23:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you r being used it does happen at this age every thing looks like love
2006-08-19 20:27:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on you. You must make it clear that this is against your beliefs. At 18 years of age it is hard to know what love really is(I'm 36 and still not 100% sure). If he is a gentleman he will accept your decision and not pressure you, in fact he WILL respect you. The waiting makes the first time that much sweeter.So it was for my wife and myself(married 11 1/2 yrs.) Don't compromise.
2006-08-21 00:23:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a time when you can check whether his love is true or not. Just say him no and give him reason for your answer. If he really loves you n respect you he will never insist you for sex again. But if he insist you again n again even after refusal from your side, than i am sure that he will definetly leave you after some days when he will realise that he cant get anything from you. That will be the proof of his untrue love. Just try this and don't trust guys... I am also guy and can suggest you better than any other.
2006-08-20 14:10:06 · answer #3 · answered by ravinder_1215 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then dun do it....how sure are u he is gonna stick wit u once he is done wit u??? Lets say he doesnt even wanna use protection...u get pregnant...are u 100% sure he is gonna admit tat it is his..he is gonna turn ard and call u a ****! and ur life wud be ruined(u being an indian...it frowned upon having an illegitimate child..isnt it???) if he loves u...he will wait till u both are married...if he respect u he will want u to be his life partner...
but the decision is finally urs....are u prepared for the consequences...are u prepared to be dumped after he is satisfied wit u..and he finds someone else?? I m not sayin this will surely happen....but keep in mind it can...it has happened to many b4 and it can happen to u too..be wise in ur choices n decision...ur virginity can never come back...and the rumour or shame he spreads later wont be easy to erase(if he does do tat).
U r only 18..how can u be sure it is love??
2006-08-20 03:39:56 · answer #4 · answered by aneurinaa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if someone who loves u truely and wanna have sex with u thn u might me at wrong point. bcoz love never need sex to go through. so u plzzz never do this thing if u want to know the true meaning of love. all the best
2006-08-20 04:17:44 · answer #5 · answered by nitinvipin123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you love someone who is only 7 that kind of weird an yall want to have sex damn that fucked up
2006-08-21 13:53:03 · answer #6 · answered by Shadow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you age you really got confused about Love and attraction , and if he really loves you he will respect your wish of not having any sexs before marriage ....
2006-08-20 05:47:38 · answer #7 · answered by shady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What i think may be you love but he only want to do sex as he dont want to do marrige with you. So before living you he want to feel your body so he is asking for sex
2006-08-20 04:10:25 · answer #8 · answered by rathee2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it ur belief to not have sex b4 intercourse? explain ur feelings and beliefs, if u give in ur losong th battle. How long have u know/ ben together? Weigh ur options think w/ ur heard not ur heart...
2006-08-20 07:26:03 · answer #9 · answered by ~Niecee~ âË» âË» ♂ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO
if you have to ask means you have a doubt in your mind
means you are not ready for it
believe me it worth postponing
2006-08-24 03:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by shart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋